The Relationship Thread.

[FRED HALE SR.]

Originally Posted by FETCHER.

Found out yesterday the dude that ignored me didn't want anything serious, which is cool. I respect that, he is going away for 6 months later in the year. Why is he such a pussy tho that couldn't ****ing say? How hard is that, it would've saved me a lot of confusion and thinking I'd done something wrong. He wasn't that ****ing special that he would hurt my feelings. God damn men can be such pussies.

Yes we can. And he hurt your feeling to some degree you hardass.

[Cuthbert]

Originally Posted by Newkie

How hard were you trying to contact him? It could have been an ego thing, I know women like to feel like they're being chased sometimes, perhaps it was an ego thing for him? More of a dick move than being a pussy if that were the case..

If it was the case, he sounds like a bell-end. Can't stand people who play games, why can't people just go with the flow if they like each other? Too arsed about playing it cool, not being too keen and lots of other bs.

[Newkie]

Originally Posted by Fluffy Kittens

If it was the case, he sounds like a bell-end. Can't stand people who play games, why can't people just go with the flow if they like each other? Too arsed about playing it cool, not being too keen and lots of other bs.

Agreed, but so many people seem to do it's actually a shock when it doesn't happen, in my experience anyway. Basically people are too insecure to appear too interested for fear of looking insecure to someone else.

D'oh.

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by Fluffy Kittens

If it was the case, he sounds like a bell-end. Can't stand people who play games, why can't people just go with the flow if they like each other? Too arsed about playing it cool, not being too keen and lots of other bs.

I live by this. If I like someone, I damn well say so. But sometimes relationships can build over many years and it can be difficult to admit your feelings for someone because you don't know if they feel the same.

[scleaves]

I actually have a whole lot of relationship experience for being a virgin. Though a lot of it is long distance relationship experience.

There was a video game called The Last Story and I joined a group centered around it. I developed a crush on a woman who was part of the group. She would flirt with me all the time and others took notice of it as well, but she never actually made any moves. So I built up the courage to tell her that I had a crush on her. She didn't beat around the bush, she told me flat out the feeling wasn't mutual. We stayed friends for awhile but later became enemies.

[FRED HALE SR.]

Originally Posted by scleaves

I actually have a whole lot of relationship experience for being a virgin. Though a lot of it is long distance relationship experience.

There was a video game called The Last Story and I joined a group centered around it. I developed a crush on a woman who was part of the group. She would flirt with me all the time and others took notice of it as well, but she never actually made any moves. So I built up the courage to tell her that I had a crush on her. She didn't beat around the bush, she told me flat out the feeling wasn't mutual. We stayed friends for awhile but later became enemies.

How do you know it was a female? Did you skype her out of her underwear?

[Newkie]

Originally Posted by scleaves

I actually have a whole lot of relationship experience for being a virgin. Though a lot of it is long distance relationship experience.

There was a video game called The Last Story and I joined a group centered around it. I developed a crush on a woman who was part of the group. She would flirt with me all the time and others took notice of it as well, but she never actually made any moves. So I built up the courage to tell her that I had a crush on her. She didn't beat around the bush, she told me flat out the feeling wasn't mutual. We stayed friends for awhile but later became enemies.

No moves at all? She didn't even unequip her gear to let you have a gander? Tough crowd dude, choose your party more wisely in future.

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by Newkie

No moves at all? She didn't even unequip her gear to let you have a gander? Tough crowd dude, choose your party more wisely in future.

[Sequoioideae]

I'm in a sweet relationship with my imaginary qt 3.14 girlfriend who plays viola, and listens to noise music. She can make the viola sound like cooing birds, or a pack of angry bees, I is in love.

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by scleaves

I actually have a whole lot of relationship experience for being a virgin. Though a lot of it is long distance relationship experience.

There was a video game called The Last Story and I joined a group centered around it. I developed a crush on a woman who was part of the group. She would flirt with me all the time and others took notice of it as well, but she never actually made any moves. So I built up the courage to tell her that I had a crush on her. She didn't beat around the bush, she told me flat out the feeling wasn't mutual. We stayed friends for awhile but later became enemies.

Relationships over the internet are no reflection on real life relationships. It's good that you had the courage to ask her out but it seems you are still working on building up your confidence again.