The Relationship Thread.

FETCHER. · 05-28-2013, 04:24 AM

My best friend text me and asked me if there was something between us, and I text back saying no, that I could understand why he would think that.

and now he's ignoring me.

I know this because I text him asking him and he ignored it...

PoorOldPo · 05-28-2013, 04:28 AM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

My best friend text me and asked me if there was something between us, and I text back saying no, that I could understand why he would think that.

and now he's ignoring me.

I know this because I text him asking him and he ignored it...

He has a crush on you?

FETCHER. · 05-28-2013, 04:31 AM

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Originally Posted by PoorOldPo

He has a crush on you?

yeah pretty much, although he never said that he acts really weird when he likes someone and he's been acting weird for a while but I never knew it was me.

I've got my finger in other pies man.

As much as I love him as a friend I could seriously never go there.

PoorOldPo · 05-28-2013, 06:04 AM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

yeah pretty much, although he never said that he acts really weird when he likes someone and he's been acting weird for a while but I never knew it was me.

I've got my finger in other pies man.

As much as I love him as a friend I could seriously never go there.

Just tell him that he's like an apple pie, and you want rhubarb.

Mojo · 05-28-2013, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

yeah pretty much, although he never said that he acts really weird when he likes someone and he's been acting weird for a while but I never knew it was me.

I've got my finger in other pies man.

As much as I love him as a friend I could seriously never go there.

Theres not a lot you can do really if he is ignoring you. Just be available to be talk and be honest but empathetic when he stops ignoring you.

FETCHER. · 06-04-2013, 08:09 AM

So me and an acquaintance of mines have been getting really close recently, he had a party at the weekend and I left my bag accidentally when I left for work the next morning, so yesterday I go to pick it up and I took him to Asda for some food because his parents are currently on holiday, we come back and watch tv and talk crap for a while, then he asks me if I want to stay for dinner so I say 'yes' and his brother and his gf came round too, when we left (I offered to drive his brother + his gf home on my way to my sisters as they stay in the same street) we didn't hug, kiss, nothing. I dunno if it was because of the audience or if he's just not that interested in me but then I think why would he make me dinner?

I'm actually so bad at reading guys, I find it quite hard to believe when a guy likes me so I don't know if it's just me? Because it probably is.

AAAAAHHHHH.

Edit: me and my best friend are cool btw, or as far as I am aware anyway.

Mojo · 06-04-2013, 08:23 AM

Well, while it's difficult to tell from what you have posted here whether he would view your relationship as a friendship or potentially something more, and I know you have stated you have or have had self-confidence issues, why exactly do you find it hard to believe any bloke wouldn't be interested?

djchameleon · 06-04-2013, 08:28 AM

If you really want to know if he's interested in you more than a friend just come out and ask him. I'm pretty sure he wouldn't hesitate to let you know where he stands.

FETCHER. · 06-04-2013, 08:32 AM

I don't know, I just have a hard time believing guys would want to seriously date me, I know random guys can and do find me attractive but find it hard to believe they would want to make me their girlfriend. I dunno it's hard to explain and is probably the sole reason I've never had a boyfriend.

Mojo · 06-04-2013, 08:49 AM

The sole reason being that you yourself find it hard to believe that they would be interested in you that way, you mean?

Maybe this is the case. I don't know. While I obviously don't know you personally, what I do know about you would suggest you are attractive, intelligent and have a sense of humour and really, I don't see any reason why plenty of lads wouldn't be interested in you that way. You've said yourself that you are more confident now than you were, maybe more confidence in who you are will continue to come with time. I'd say you deserve that.

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06-04-2013, 08:49 AM	#290 (permalink)
Mojo Melancholia Eternally Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: England Posts: 5,018	The sole reason being that you yourself find it hard to believe that they would be interested in you that way, you mean? Maybe this is the case. I don't know. While I obviously don't know you personally, what I do know about you would suggest you are attractive, intelligent and have a sense of humour and really, I don't see any reason why plenty of lads wouldn't be interested in you that way. You've said yourself that you are more confident now than you were, maybe more confidence in who you are will continue to come with time. I'd say you deserve that. __________________ Last.FM \| Echoes and Dust