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Originally Posted by Astronomer
I'd just leave it at that then, it sounds like it will be OK, even if he isn't yet FULLY okay with it 
Does anyone else here who is in a long term relationship, lets say a relationship of 5+ years, miss the newness that comes with a new relationship? The thrill of the chase, the butterflies, all the "firsts", the awkward moments & all? I was just thinking about that today, not in a bad way, but kinda in a nostalgic way. Being in a long-term relationship and knowing someone so well does have it's own pros, but sometimes I really do miss that newness. |
Not in a 5 year relationship here, but I think I can understand what you're saying. I live with my boyfriend and sometimes I think we get sick of each other, like "Oh, you again" sort of thing when you walk into a room and see them there, lol.
Trying new things together definitely helps and it makes things exciting. I think there are always things you can learn about each other by trying new stuff, whether it be food or doing some new adventurous thing, stuff like that. Spending copious amounts of time alone helps too. Sounds counterproductive, I know, but it's not good to be around each other 24/7.
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Originally Posted by Blarobbarg
So I saw the girl I mentioned forever ago a few days ago... we're on summer break so aren't seeing each other every day any more, but have been in close contact since we left Nicaragua a month and a half ago. I just got down to Daytona Beach for a family vacation, and she has just so happened been here on vacation with HER family, and we ended up being able to go out for frozen yogurt together right before she had to leave. We got it together literally fifteen minutes before.
Apparently, we seemed really into each other because as soon as we left the place my family started questioning me about us.
Honestly, I think I may be in love. I'm not really sure what to do with these emotions, but the longer we're apart the closer we're getting (weirdly enough) and I'll be back in Nica with her by the end of the month.
I suppose I'll talk to her about it then. This is weird for me, but if it works out I will be a happy man.
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That's so sweet. I remember when you had mentioned her before! I hope you get somewhere with this girl!
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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.
Awesome man. Honestly and truly best of luck with that. You're one of the coolest guys on the site man, i'm sure things will work out the way you want. Nice guys don't finish last.  |
Agreed! Girls don't always want the "bad boy" types... from what I hear from my more experienced friends, they're usually the ones who turn out to be duds.
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