Mankycaaant wants to meet up with cute chubby girls

CrazyVegn · 06-29-2013, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Hermione

While I see your point I think you are being a bit harsh in this, Mags, plenty of women are socialised to believe that we (proverbial we as always...) are all "backstabbing gossipy bitches" and she may not just have had female friends who treated her as kindly as men have, I think it's more effective to win over people with understanding in this difficult situation than it is to berate them (not that you are, really) befitting your experiences with them and their willingness to not be a total dickhead and own up to these misogynistic kinds of attitudes, however I do commend you for pointing this out in a place where it is pretty much overlooked ALL THE FUCKING TIME.

Or you know, she could have brothers. All things must be considered

She doesn't strike me as the type who'll cut down other women so as to gain entrance into the boy's club (haaaa)

Yes, thanks!
I can completely understand why Fetcher feels the way she does and to unfriend someone who shows a strong like toward someone I strongly dislike is questionable, but I was hurt. It is not that I'm acting like a spoiled kid bc no one agrees with me. It is because in my eyes I was ganged up on for something very trivial and playful.
I'm not saying Roxy ALWAYS takes males side, but I wanted to be sure there is none of the fellow female blaming stuff going on bc I'm a victim of that as well. Some have called me a feminist, but IDK.
There's really not that many people on this website for mod NOT to at least say something nice/neutral to everyone once in awhile. There's 75,000, right? and only a few hundred active.
I apologize for unfriending those I did and will kindly makeup and friend. Pls understand my family stress lately.

BTW you can all thank Roxy or I wouldn't have ever posted here again.

djchameleon · 06-29-2013, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by CrazyVegn

I apologize for unfriending those I did and will kindly makeup and friend. Pls understand my family stress lately.

The family situation actually makes sense and you might not like me anymore but I still offer up my condolences in this rough patch of time for you.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 06-29-2013, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by CrazyVegn

Yes, thanks!
I can completely understand why Fetcher feels the way she does and to unfriend someone who shows a strong like toward someone I strongly dislike is questionable, but I was hurt. It is not that I'm acting like a spoiled kid bc no one agrees with me. It is because in my eyes I was ganged up on for something very trivial and playful.
I'm not saying Roxy ALWAYS takes males side, but I wanted to be sure there is none of the fellow female blaming stuff going on bc I'm a victim of that as well. Some have called me a feminist, but IDK.
There's really not that many people on this website for mod NOT to at least say something nice/neutral to everyone once in awhile. There's 75,000, right? and only a few hundred active.
I apologize for unfriending those I did and will kindly makeup and friend. Pls understand my family stress lately.

BTW you can all thank Roxy or I wouldn't have ever posted here again.

Lol at the bolded

Kayleigh (Fetcher) always stands up for other girls, it's one of the best things about her

I'm sorry for your family troubles though, I hope it gets better for you.

RoxyRollah · 06-29-2013, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by CrazyVegn

Interesting how you stand up for males - not females...
As for Freebase, maybe he gives you a different vibe than he gives me. Because he has never talked to me unless it's negative, as a sensitive person with sharp instincts, I must conclude his energy is bad even for a fellow cat lover. OTOH maybe he is shy around beautiful women? This is a minor problem I've dealt with all my life.
Lately I've been going under a lot of stress for various reasons but one of the biggest ones is my grandma is in the hospital. I'll be 30 in May and both sets of grandparents are still alive, but well they are not.
Summer is my favorite time of year, except for the teens and other children running rampant in RL and on the Internet. The impression I get from manky is that of a spoiled child...
As far as the subject of this thread... I am thin but was blessed w/ the boobs of a fat girl - 32 C. Anyway I'm glad I don't count as OP's preference and regarded as chubby. I'm trying to fight, as I am embarrassed of, USA's reputation of blimpies.

lol

Ouchie* to be honest love I stick up for both male and female.....but see here is where I am not trying to be a bitch, but I am gonna say it anyhow, I just dont get involved in drama
I come to hang out with other music lovers and I have made some killer friends in the process....thats just Roxy, I dont have the time or the patience to come to verbal blows with ppl I try and obey the forum rules and have a good time with men or women

RoxyRollah · 06-29-2013, 02:40 PM

Btw thanks Fetcher....and on a side note I never really uhh well put down the women on the board,or the men for that matter....I understand you are going through some **** but so isnt everyone on here and I think that everyone should be mindful and respectful of that....

CrazyVegn · 06-29-2013, 02:41 PM

I'm here for that reason, too, GF. Actually I'm not mad at anybody anymore, not even the OP. Why? Bc the mods were kind enough to allow me a few good jabs in

RoxyRollah · 06-29-2013, 02:50 PM

Just do me a personal favor next time you are mad please dont come at me like that again....
I didnt dig it at all...it was a generalized statement and it was, well wrong... I treat you the way you desreve with respect and kidness show me the same....

CrazyVegn · 06-29-2013, 02:56 PM

Thanks for helping give me closure. x

RoxyRollah · 06-29-2013, 02:59 PM

Im glad you got closure...I never got an apology. ...but at least one of us is happy...

CrazyVegn · 06-29-2013, 03:00 PM

Roxy,
I apologize for the over generalization!..

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CrazyVegn Left due to ban epidemic Join Date: Mar 2013 Posts: 498	I'm here for that reason, too, GF. Actually I'm not mad at anybody anymore, not even the OP. Why? Bc the mods were kind enough to allow me a few good jabs in

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CrazyVegn Left due to ban epidemic Join Date: Mar 2013 Posts: 498	Thanks for helping give me closure. x

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CrazyVegn Left due to ban epidemic Join Date: Mar 2013 Posts: 498	Roxy, I apologize for the over generalization!..