Let's Talk About Love

Trollheart · 08-21-2013, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by 216

i was talkin about ladyislingering. sayin stuff like her bf is her hero and she looks up to him was strange and cringey for me

Yeah, sorry you were. I got confusticated.
It's still beautiful though. It's not as if she's saying bad stuff about him. Who wouldn't want to hear how great they are? I say --- hmm. Nobody going to tell me how great I am. Typical. Well, there go the last vestiges of my ego. Nice knowin' ya!

Key · 08-21-2013, 02:10 PM

I don't see the problem. Talking about our relationship in a thread dedicated to talking about love. Is there something wrong with being in love?

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 08-21-2013, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

I don't see the problem. Talking about our relationship in a thread dedicated to talking about love. Is there something wrong with being in love?

not at all just expressing my opinion

Key · 08-21-2013, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by 216

not at all just expressing my opinion

Well take it somewhere else. You're not really getting anywhere talking against someone's love in a thread asking about love.

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 08-21-2013, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

Well take it somewhere else. You're not really getting anywhere talking against someone's love in a thread asking about love.

im not tryin to get anywhere or convince anyone of anything or really do anythin other than give my opinion on topics in threads.

Key · 08-21-2013, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by 216

im not tryin to get anywhere or convince anyone of anything or really do anythin other than give my opinion on topics in threads.

Personally, I wouldn't feel any need to go into a thread about a topic of love, single out a member, and tell them that it makes you uncomfortable. That's nobody's problem but yours. And when it starts to be about personal lives of members, it no longer continues to be an opinion.

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 08-21-2013, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

Personally, I wouldn't feel any need to go into a thread about a topic of love, single out a member, and tell them that it makes you uncomfortable. That's nobody's problem but yours. And when it starts to be about personal lives of members, it no longer continues to be an opinion.

well i didnt come here with evil intentions. i came into a thread and commented on a post in the thread and i dont think anything i said was insanely offensive. i guess if you dont want your private life commented on then dont post about it in public. i dont consider your love life a problem of mine, truth is i care very little, just discussing things in the thread.

also no clue what the bold part means tbh

Dr_Rez · 08-21-2013, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

Personally, I wouldn't feel any need to go into a thread about a topic of love, single out a member, and tell them that it makes you uncomfortable. That's nobody's problem but yours. And when it starts to be about personal lives of members, it no longer continues to be an opinion.

Ki with all due respect, when someone divulges personal info in a public thread on a public forum they are opening themselves up to exactly this kind of thing. While you or I may not agree with 216 he doesnt have the right to say what he feels...the information he is speaking of wasnt stolen off a private part of forum or a pm. If people dont want to be criticized or talked about they should not divulge personal information.

ilashes. · 08-21-2013, 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

As far as love goes though, I don't really like the new love phase that others tend to miss and wish they could go back to and try to re-kindle in relationships to keep the passion alive. The type of love that I like is when you have been with someone for awhile and you are just super comfortable around them and there is this insane security and high level of trust that even if you are going through problems in the relationship you are willing to make sacrifices and work through those issues for the greater good of the relationship as a whole then you have awesome makeup sex to celebrate the resolve of an issue that was going on.

I agree. I love being in love. The best part is the tears, laughs, memories, pain. Having a history with someone that you know everything about and can talk to them absolutely anything really is delightful. The new love phase feels temporary but an experienced love feels comforting.

Dr_Rez · 08-21-2013, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ilashes.

I agree. I love being in love. The best part is the tears, laughs, memories, pain. Having a history with someone that you know everything about and can talk to them absolutely anything really is delightful. The new love phase feels temporary but an experienced love feels comforting.

I can agree with that. I guess most of my love throughout life has been Platonic however. My family and friends. Just my few very very close friends. I guess the real test is when you dont live near them anymore will you still feel the same way when you see them a year...2 years...10 years later.

Iv recently moved away from literally everyone I know and I sure hope when I go back to visit in a year or so it is a positive experience.

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Key . Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 13,153	I don't see the problem. Talking about our relationship in a thread dedicated to talking about love. Is there something wrong with being in love?