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Old 08-21-2013, 04:23 PM   #81 (permalink)
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It appears to me that there's someone in this thread with a distinct lack of tender human emotions, or that they have just never been shown unconditional love, thus never actually learning its value. People with this disposition are uncomfortable in the presence of those who have learned unconditional love, because we are alien to them.

Either way, it's also safe to say that some people are just Keiths.
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Old 08-21-2013, 04:41 PM   #82 (permalink)
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I can agree with that. I guess most of my love throughout life has been Platonic however. My family and friends. Just my few very very close friends. I guess the real test is when you dont live near them anymore will you still feel the same way when you see them a year...2 years...10 years later.

Iv recently moved away from literally everyone I know and I sure hope when I go back to visit in a year or so it is a positive experience.

I know how hard that can be. Don't worry, when you return they will show you how much they love you by how much they missed you.
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Old 08-21-2013, 04:44 PM   #83 (permalink)
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I know how hard that can be. Don't worry, when you return they will show you how much they love you by how much they missed you.
I dont know man, I think I overestimate friendships. Or people that mean alot to me dont necessarily feel the same. Maybe I am wrong, but maybe not. For instance I turn 23 today and not one person from where I used to live has called or anything since I dont do all the facebook bull****. I think some people (myself obviously) give off a aloof dont need people attitude when it isnt really true, and just do it to put up a wall around yourself.
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Old 08-21-2013, 05:01 PM   #84 (permalink)
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I dont know man, I think I overestimate friendships. Or people that mean alot to me dont necessarily feel the same. Maybe I am wrong, but maybe not. For instance I turn 23 today and not one person from where I used to live has called or anything since I dont do all the facebook bull****. I think some people (myself obviously) give off a aloof dont need people attitude when it isnt really true, and just do it to put up a wall around yourself.
Happy Birthday. Facebook is a wasteland.
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Old 08-21-2013, 05:04 PM   #85 (permalink)
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I dont know man, I think I overestimate friendships. Or people that mean alot to me dont necessarily feel the same. Maybe I am wrong, but maybe not. For instance I turn 23 today and not one person from where I used to live has called or anything since I dont do all the facebook bull****. I think some people (myself obviously) give off a aloof dont need people attitude when it isnt really true, and just do it to put up a wall around yourself.

Today is your birthday? Happy Birthday to you!! I always find (from my own personal experience) that the ones with the walls are the one's who deserve to be loved the most. People are sometimes forgetful but that doesn't mean you're not loved and at 23 you have an entire lifetime left to experience both the joys and sorrow that love can be.

Again, Happy Happy Happy Birthday!! Hope you have an opportunity to celebrate tonight!
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Today is your birthday? Happy Birthday to you!! I always find (from my own personal experience) that the ones with the walls are the one's who deserve to be loved the most. People are sometimes forgetful but that doesn't mean you're not loved and at 23 you have an entire lifetime left to experience both the joys and sorrow that love can be.

Again, Happy Happy Happy Birthday!! Hope you have an opportunity to celebrate tonight!
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It appears to me that there's someone in this thread with a distinct lack of tender human emotions, or that they have just never been shown unconditional love, thus never actually learning its value. People with this disposition are uncomfortable in the presence of those who have learned unconditional love, because we are alien to them.

Either way, it's also safe to say that some people are just Keiths.
no need to be cryptic girl. i found that very overdone and cringe worthy as well. me and ur bf discussed things in chat earlier and we decided not to continue with each other


rez happy bday man. dont worry about friends, i feel that way sometimes too but when i do see a select few bros its just like old times
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no need to be cryptic girl. i found that very overdone and cringe worthy as well. me and ur bf discussed things in chat earlier and we decided not to continue with each other


rez happy bday man. dont worry about friends, i feel that way sometimes too but when i do see a select few bros its just like old times
While I don't go for the lovey dovey stuff myself, I think participating in the thread is kind of useless to the degree you're doing it. However you're entitiled to speak your mind and it seems you have made your point. Rez should have moved to cali, I would have bought him some strippers and spirits.
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While I don't go for the lovey dovey stuff myself, I think participating in the thread is kind of useless to the degree you're doing it. However you're entitiled to speak your mind and it seems you have made your point. Rez should have moved to cali, I would have bought him some strippers and spirits.
I have friends that did. They said it is insanely expensive.
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Old 08-21-2013, 06:16 PM   #90 (permalink)
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Thank you both.
Happy Birthday Rez!

Have to disagree with you though. If you go into a thread called "Let's talk about love" and don't expect mushy sentiments then you shouldn't go in. And if you don't like what you read I think you should exit quietly. It's not up to anyone to make a judgement or form an opinion, unasked for, on anyone's love life. I think it's only manners to let people express themselves as they want to, in an appropriate thread. If this were called "Do you love or hate love" (I know, stupid title but I'm tired) then maybe. Maybe. But it's pretty clear from Vanilla's OP that she's asking people to talk about the joys of being in love and for someone to effectively stick their fingers down their throat and make choking noises is, I feel, the height of rudeness.
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