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Old 10-30-2013, 12:48 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I met someone who I knew for 3 days total. She apparently started to fall in love with me and although I have had girlfriends before, she was the first to tell me she loved me. I started to fall in love with her too, but I just was not really attracted to her. She is 30 and I am 24. The way I saw it was, I am not the best looking person around, but I can still get a much better looking 22 year old with a lot of luck. Less luck if I pursue certain career choices - singer, football player, etc. Because women tend to like those.

So anyway, I broke up with her. There were other problems too, besides the attraction. She wouldn't play games correctly (not relationship games. just games in general). And she didn't have the best communication abilities compared to me - she wrote short messages, couldn't always use correct spelling or grammar, and the like.

So my question is, did I make the right choice breaking up with her? Should I have broken up with someone that supposedly loved me?
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Someone who falls in love with you after three days is probably crazy and hella clingy. So yeah, probably
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Someone who falls in love with you after three days is probably crazy and hella clingy. So yeah, probably
Came in to say this. Love after 3 days???????????? Run bro.
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Came in to say this. Love after 3 days???????????? Run bro.
To be fair, I got engaged after three days, so uh
yeah

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To be fair, I got engaged after three days, so uh
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How long did that last?
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A year and a half
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To be fair, I got engaged after three days, so uh
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Hehe. Love makes fools of us all.
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Hehe. Love makes fools of us all.
Actually rebound relationships & misguided attempts at revenge do

but i digress
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I met someone who I knew for 3 days total. She apparently started to fall in love with me and although I have had girlfriends before, she was the first to tell me she loved me. I started to fall in love with her too, but I just was not really attracted to her. She is 30 and I am 24. The way I saw it was, I am not the best looking person around, but I can still get a much better looking 22 year old with a lot of luck. Less luck if I pursue certain career choices - singer, football player, etc. Because women tend to like those.

So anyway, I broke up with her. There were other problems too, besides the attraction. She wouldn't play games correctly (not relationship games. just games in general). And she didn't have the best communication abilities compared to me - she wrote short messages, couldn't always use correct spelling or grammar, and the like.

So my question is, did I make the right choice breaking up with her? Should I have broken up with someone that supposedly loved me?
It might be too late already. She probably fell in love with a guy alot better looking and younger then you by now. Better luck next time.
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