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Old 10-30-2013, 01:48 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I met someone who I knew for 3 days total. She apparently started to fall in love with me and although I have had girlfriends before, she was the first to tell me she loved me. I started to fall in love with her too, but I just was not really attracted to her. She is 30 and I am 24. The way I saw it was, I am not the best looking person around, but I can still get a much better looking 22 year old with a lot of luck. Less luck if I pursue certain career choices - singer, football player, etc. Because women tend to like those.

So anyway, I broke up with her. There were other problems too, besides the attraction. She wouldn't play games correctly (not relationship games. just games in general). And she didn't have the best communication abilities compared to me - she wrote short messages, couldn't always use correct spelling or grammar, and the like.

So my question is, did I make the right choice breaking up with her? Should I have broken up with someone that supposedly loved me?
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Old 10-30-2013, 01:50 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Someone who falls in love with you after three days is probably crazy and hella clingy. So yeah, probably
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Old 10-30-2013, 02:05 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I met someone who I knew for 3 days total. She apparently started to fall in love with me and although I have had girlfriends before, she was the first to tell me she loved me. I started to fall in love with her too, but I just was not really attracted to her. She is 30 and I am 24. The way I saw it was, I am not the best looking person around, but I can still get a much better looking 22 year old with a lot of luck. Less luck if I pursue certain career choices - singer, football player, etc. Because women tend to like those.

So anyway, I broke up with her. There were other problems too, besides the attraction. She wouldn't play games correctly (not relationship games. just games in general). And she didn't have the best communication abilities compared to me - she wrote short messages, couldn't always use correct spelling or grammar, and the like.

So my question is, did I make the right choice breaking up with her? Should I have broken up with someone that supposedly loved me?
It might be too late already. She probably fell in love with a guy alot better looking and younger then you by now. Better luck next time.
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Old 10-30-2013, 02:07 PM   #4 (permalink)
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It might be too late already. She probably fell in love with a guy alot better looking and younger then you by now. Better luck next time.
I doubt it. But thanks anyhow, you've put my mind at ease.
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Old 10-30-2013, 02:14 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I met someone who I knew for 3 days total. She apparently started to fall in love with me and although I have had girlfriends before, she was the first to tell me she loved me. I started to fall in love with her too, but I just was not really attracted to her. She is 30 and I am 24. The way I saw it was, I am not the best looking person around, but I can still get a much better looking 22 year old with a lot of luck. Less luck if I pursue certain career choices - singer, football player, etc. Because women tend to like those.

So anyway, I broke up with her. There were other problems too, besides the attraction. She wouldn't play games correctly (not relationship games. just games in general). And she didn't have the best communication abilities compared to me - she wrote short messages, couldn't always use correct spelling or grammar, and the like.

So my question is, did I make the right choice breaking up with her? Should I have broken up with someone that supposedly loved me?
3 days and she loves you already? She sounds clingy and insane. You made the right choice.
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Old 10-30-2013, 02:16 PM   #6 (permalink)
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3 days and she loves you already? She sounds clingy and insane. You made the right choice.
Thats what Dan said. Heh
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Old 10-30-2013, 02:20 PM   #7 (permalink)
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She wouldn't play games correctly
*moves bishop horizontally

"Thats it we're over!"
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Old 10-30-2013, 02:26 PM   #8 (permalink)
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"Thats it we're over!"
Well I can tell you what happened. We were playing Truth or Dare and Truth or Dare is not an easy game to play, but she skipped 3 simple dares. They were not anything complex like jump off a cliff or strip down. They were just things like, "Tell me something that embarrasses you."
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Old 10-30-2013, 02:33 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Well I can tell you what happened. We were playing Truth or Dare and Truth or Dare is not an easy game to play, but she skipped 3 simple dares. They were not anything complex like jump off a cliff or strip down. They were just things like, "Tell me something that embarrasses you."
Thats a huge deal breaker in any relationship. I broke up with my last because she sucked at Twister. " I don't want to get my knees dirty!!!" A girl who doesn't want to get her knees dirty is a surefire prude.
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Old 10-30-2013, 02:59 PM   #10 (permalink)
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She wouldn't play games correctly? Burn the witch!
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