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chris_mills 10-30-2013 02:08 PM

Friend Situation
 
Im currently in the uncool group. Sure, it's a laugh and these people are actually my friends and like me but yeah. Anyway, I've always tried to get into the cooler group who actually go out to parties and stuff for a while. Recently, they've started to invite me to places more often. However, I realised they don't really like me and only invite me for stupid reasons. So my situation is, they asked me to go paint balling with them and at first I thought it would be fun and a chance to permanently in their group. However I found out that the only reason I was invited was so they had enough people to get a discount. Can you tell me whether I should still go?

scleaves 10-30-2013 02:09 PM

Don't waste your time. Better to be cool and unliked than liked and uncool.

Mr. Charlie 10-30-2013 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by chris_mills (Post 1378933)
Can you tell me whether I should still go?

I can't, no. But you can.

FRED HALE SR. 10-30-2013 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by chris_mills (Post 1378933)
Im currently in the uncool group. Sure, it's a laugh and these people are actually my friends and like me but yeah. Anyway, I've always tried to get into the cooler group who actually go out to parties and stuff for a while. Recently, they've started to invite me to places more often. However, I realised they don't really like me and only invite me for stupid reasons. So my situation is, they asked me to go paint balling with them and at first I thought it would be fun and a chance to permanently in their group. However I found out that the only reason I was invited was so they had enough people to get a discount. Can you tell me whether I should still go?

Sounds like your only option is to go. Put in live ammo and let er rip. Then all the cool kids still left standing will wanna be friends then.

chris_mills 10-30-2013 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR. (Post 1378940)
Sounds like your only option is to go. Put in live ammo and let er rip. Then all the cool kids still left standing will wanna be friends then.

Sound good :P

And thanks for all the replies this quickly.

chris_mills 10-30-2013 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by scleaves (Post 1378934)
Don't waste your time. Better to be cool and unliked than liked and uncool.

I'm liked but uncool in my current friends group. So your theory would mean I should go and try and become friends with them?

scleaves 10-30-2013 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by chris_mills (Post 1378946)
I'm liked but uncool in my current friends group. So your theory would mean I should go and try and become friends with them?

No. Cool to me would be sticking by you like your "uncool" friends are. Uncool would be a bunch of people using you for a discount, no matter how cool they were.

chris_mills 10-30-2013 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by scleaves (Post 1378948)
No. Cool to me would be sticking by you like your "uncool" friends are. Uncool would be a bunch of people using you for a discount, no matter how cool they were.

Yeah you're probably right, but parties and alcohol does seem more 'cool' than Friday nights in playing FIFA.

Mr. Charlie 10-30-2013 02:41 PM

Chris, which group of people make you feel best?

Isbjørn 10-30-2013 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Charlie (Post 1378953)
Chris, which group of people make you feel best?

Point


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