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Old 10-30-2013, 03:08 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Im currently in the uncool group. Sure, it's a laugh and these people are actually my friends and like me but yeah. Anyway, I've always tried to get into the cooler group who actually go out to parties and stuff for a while. Recently, they've started to invite me to places more often. However, I realised they don't really like me and only invite me for stupid reasons. So my situation is, they asked me to go paint balling with them and at first I thought it would be fun and a chance to permanently in their group. However I found out that the only reason I was invited was so they had enough people to get a discount. Can you tell me whether I should still go?
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Old 10-30-2013, 03:09 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Don't waste your time. Better to be cool and unliked than liked and uncool.
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Old 10-30-2013, 03:11 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Can you tell me whether I should still go?
I can't, no. But you can.
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Old 10-30-2013, 03:12 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Im currently in the uncool group. Sure, it's a laugh and these people are actually my friends and like me but yeah. Anyway, I've always tried to get into the cooler group who actually go out to parties and stuff for a while. Recently, they've started to invite me to places more often. However, I realised they don't really like me and only invite me for stupid reasons. So my situation is, they asked me to go paint balling with them and at first I thought it would be fun and a chance to permanently in their group. However I found out that the only reason I was invited was so they had enough people to get a discount. Can you tell me whether I should still go?
Sounds like your only option is to go. Put in live ammo and let er rip. Then all the cool kids still left standing will wanna be friends then.
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Old 10-30-2013, 03:27 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Sounds like your only option is to go. Put in live ammo and let er rip. Then all the cool kids still left standing will wanna be friends then.
Sound good :P

And thanks for all the replies this quickly.
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Old 10-30-2013, 03:28 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Don't waste your time. Better to be cool and unliked than liked and uncool.
I'm liked but uncool in my current friends group. So your theory would mean I should go and try and become friends with them?
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Old 10-30-2013, 03:30 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I'm liked but uncool in my current friends group. So your theory would mean I should go and try and become friends with them?
No. Cool to me would be sticking by you like your "uncool" friends are. Uncool would be a bunch of people using you for a discount, no matter how cool they were.
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Old 10-30-2013, 03:35 PM   #8 (permalink)
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No. Cool to me would be sticking by you like your "uncool" friends are. Uncool would be a bunch of people using you for a discount, no matter how cool they were.
Yeah you're probably right, but parties and alcohol does seem more 'cool' than Friday nights in playing FIFA.
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Old 10-30-2013, 03:41 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Chris, which group of people make you feel best?
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Old 10-30-2013, 03:49 PM   #10 (permalink)
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