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Old 03-14-2004, 12:28 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Girls: What do you look for in a guy?

We have winterslastbreath's thread where she asks about her boyfriend, and so I was thinking it might be nice for the women here (winterslastbreath, jibber, etc.) to say what sort of things women look for in guys. I think us guys can always learn things from girls about this. And also, what do you look out for (as in stuff that's bad)?
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Old 03-14-2004, 12:30 AM   #2 (permalink)
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well, sense of humor for sure, sweet, intelligent (doesn't have to be a genious but i need to be able to carry on an inteligent conversation with the guy) looks, but its not #1, i've found ALOT of times that a with a guy that i initially wasn't all that atracted to, but who had a great personality, after getting to know him, i start to find him a hell of alot hotter. its completely true that who you are inside reflects on the outside.
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Old 03-14-2004, 12:47 AM   #3 (permalink)
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that's what i'm talking about. haha.. hmm.. here we go.

i mostly look for someone to have fun with and laugh with. someone that i don't really have to care what i look like (in my pjs, etc.) to impress him or i don't really have to care what i say around him to just act stupid. they'll listen and try to help in anyway possible whenever i need to talk or even just vent. i like someone who likes to take control as in making the first attempt to talk and such. someone outgoing. likes going places with me and/or my friends. i love kisses and huggs, so yeah. caring about another and not being selfish is a plus. sweetness, but not for the motive of getting in the pants and etc. i like when a guy does something nice, just becuz he thought of you and wanted to. openness.... it's always good to talk about things instead of keeping them from another.

i don't like... a guy being insecure about himself. i don't think any relationship a guy with insecurities has will work out right. i mean, maybe a few yea becuz almost everyone has some, but not hating your whole self 24/7 and all that. i don't like when guys are okay and fun one minute, then ******* and ignoring you the next. impatience. damn get over it-it may take a little longer for us girls to get ready! i definately don't like when a guy acts differently around his friends than you... or if they want you to hear all their problems, but you can't even get a word in about yours. self centered guys. liars... i don't do liars. i can't stand it. are you not man enough to tell the truth? ok so maybe the truth will hurt me, but it's the truth and i deserve to hear it. i don't like how some guys will just meet you, and ask you when you're going to get with him, or something like that. i just met you dude. i don't know where your tongue has been. oh.. saying somethign just to make me happy. no. saying something just to shut me up or make me happy won't make me happy if it's not truely what you feel.

hm.. i figured that paragraph was getting too long.

when i first meet a guy, i think i tend to notice their height and weight first. i don't know why, you just look at a person and see that first i guess. smile, eyes and hair. i notice hands too a lot?? lol i notice feet, yes i do. and their style/appearance can say a lot too most of the time.

i can't really think of anything else... but i'm sure if i do i'll add.
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Old 03-14-2004, 12:47 AM   #4 (permalink)
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damn.. that was long. sorry guys.
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Old 03-14-2004, 12:48 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by jibber
i've found ALOT of times that a with a guy that i initially wasn't all that atracted to, but who had a great personality, after getting to know him, i start to find him a hell of alot hotter. its completely true that who you are inside reflects on the outside.

very very very true.
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Old 03-14-2004, 12:52 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Do you pay more attention to hands and feet? What are you implying? Does size matter?
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Old 03-14-2004, 12:53 AM   #7 (permalink)
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another big turn on is a guy who can have fun just doing nothing. i was with this one guy who always needed to be doing something. he could never just hang out and relax. oh, and if the guy skis he instantly gets higher on the hotness meter
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Old 03-14-2004, 12:57 AM   #8 (permalink)
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haha if the guy skis!?!!



... i do notice if they're big or small. i don't know why though. it's not that i automatically think of their dingaling size. lol really i don't. i think.
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Old 03-14-2004, 12:59 AM   #9 (permalink)
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well ya, if the guy skis, i know that we have at least one thing in common. plus skiier guys are just so damn hot
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Old 03-14-2004, 01:00 AM   #10 (permalink)
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and musicians. i have such a thing for musicians
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