Happy Birthday, by the way!


Now, post more often! You're one of my favourite members and I like seeing what albums you downloaded because you usually download good stuff.

Haha :D Thanks. I try to be active but I'm quite busy with school and stuff (not nearly ready with my top 50 list) but I'll try harder. You're one of my favorite members too. You have an amazing taste in music.

It must be love
Love
Love
ta-daaam.

;)

I bet you'll be able to get your dad up to speed quickly, Urban. Soon he'll be fighting with your mom to use her laptop so he can download songs onto his ipod!

My brother got my dad an ipod and my dad took to it splendidly. He even falls asleep now with the buds in his ears while he listens to Bach. Meanwhile, I still don't know how an ipod works! :(

I have no idea, nonsubmissive, why anyone would drag an unwilling person to the mall! I prefer to go shoppiing alone so there is no pressure, and so I can get into the fantasy of it all: "If I got this, then my life would turn out like that!" sort of thing. :p:

My day: the most exciting and fun thing that happened was watching my little child get the mohawk haircut he has wanted since summer! I had to argue in his defense for him to get it by saying, "It's his hair."

He looked so happy and excited as his head was shaved by the friendly haircutter, who used gel to make the mohawk stand up when she was done shearing him. He looks like a cherub but has the heart of a warrior hero/bounty hunter...and now the hair to match his inner vision of himself!

Today was a shit day, I fell in love.

That can be a good thing :)

You know what? I feel good. Really good.
I've had an awful time. 2010 sucked, it really did.
I broke up with my girlfriend in september 2009 and she moved out in april 2010.
Altough we both agreed it would be better to end our (6 year) relationship, after a couple of days I realised I made a big, big mistake. It took me over a year to feel good again.
And the last couple of weeks I feel really really good. Right now I want to jump and scream and sing (I won't, it's almost 2am). I feel so alive again.
I haven't got a clue what triggered it. A lot of things, I guess. The weather really helps, I love the winter. And the relationship with my ex-girlfriend is really good now. I'm glad she's still in my life everyday because there is no one with so many shared interests and such a nice view on life.
And then there's you guys. It's really good to talk to some new people, it's really nice to talk to people who genuinely love music and are really interested in expanding their musical horizon.
And you are so nice! The dutch are so crude compared to all of you. It makes me realize the world isn't as bad as I think sometimes.

So yeah, I feel good. Thanks to winter, thanks to time, thanks to you.

And no, I don't do drugs ;).
I do music.

P.s.: Is it just me or is all this happiness improving my English? ;D.

Not when the person isn't my boyfriend of 4 years...
oops.

That happens to everyone Kate. You fell in love with your boyfriend, why couldn't you fall in love with someone else? No need to be ashamed of that. I get the feeling people aren't made to be monogamous. Their emotions certainly aren't.

When your boyfriend is nice to you and you have no intentions of leaving him, just dream.
If you have your doubts, this may be the time to really think hard about your relationship.

yeeeahhh, that happened to me.

when I was 17 (over 4 years ago now, gosh), I got together with a girl who in hindsight, I think I wasn't particularly attracted to, but I needed to be close to someone. Over the next 2 months, I pretty much fell in love with her. We spent ****loads of time together, got along pretty damn well (though she didn't like the vast majority of my friends, which I should have noticed earlier). for 3 years, we got along great, with bumpy patches every now and then, but generally staying together. 2009, we started going separate ways a bit. We broke up and got back together a few times, before she decided that she actually wanted to stay together, and probably make something really serious of it. At the time, I was unsure, cause I realised that it was the only serious relationship I'd been in in my entire life. How was I to know that there weren't people out there better suited to me? We got along in general, but there were things we really didn't agree on (she pretty much despised the Gaming-nerd side of me, which is a pretty big part of who i am), aaand she was scarily like my mother...

A week later, I met up with a group of people I knew through an (other) online forum, a gaming one, amusingly enough. one of the group was coming over to the UK from Australia, and we decided to make a meet of it, rent a lodge and get as many people as possible to come. One of the people in this group was a girl who is intelligent, funny, gorgeous and obviously a gamer. She was also very much taken.

I fell totally in love with her in three days.

Course, when I went home, there was no way I could continue the relationship with my then GF, and ended it the day I got back. There are few things so harrowing as having someone cry on you and knowing full well that you are the cause :/ At the time it was a heart-wrenching experience, especially seeing as I loved her even as I ended it, and after, but looking back, it was definitely the right thing to do. We've both moved on since then (I hope, anyway!) and we'd got to the stage where we were in the relationship not because we were perfect for each other, but because we liked being in a relationship. That, and I get to hang around with my Best Friend again, it's crazy to look back on how much I alienated my friends for those years!