Howard the Duck

same old sh*t, different day

highlight of the day - some African woman with huge boobs half-exposed on the subway who didn't mind me looking

djchameleon

so what kind of lawyer are you, Il Duce?

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Howard the Duck

I do everything - it's a small firm:- corporate, banking, sale and purchase of property, trustees, but mainly litigation

djchameleon

nice nice, I should get your card just in case I need a lawyer

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.

Howard the Duck

sure if you need to sue someone in Malaysia - +603-21664833 is my office number

TheCunningStunt

A colleague of mine does a lot of work in Kuala Lumpur.

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s_k

Allright. I got myself a beer, put on my new Soundcarriers record and now I'm ready for your questions

Because I love her. And she loves me.
And her boyfriend will just have to cope with it.
He sees his ex-girlfriend regularly too, so why not.

I'll be the last to deny that it was a pretty ****ed up situation at first.
We have done some things that probably went a bit too far and may we've cried a lot in the first... Year or so.
To be honest, I even cried a bit last tuesday. It sometimes feels so beautiful when we're together that we just can't understand why it shouldn't work. We're really beautiful together most of the time. Eitherway, there were some doubts because of that. I wouldn't be surprised if at some point we would get back together. You never know.
And the sex bit, yeah. We really don't talk about sex and whenever one gets aroused by the other (which happens now and then) we change the subject. Seems to work so far.
It took us more than a year to get where we are now. It's only been since november 2010 that we've really managed to find a way to live with this situation. Yes it is hard, no I won't just say 'we'll be friends' next time. It was really a lot harder than I expected. But I always knew what I did it for. And altough there have been some moments when I said "I can't do this anymore", we struggled on.
I mentioned in the newyear topic that 2010 was the worst year of my life. And this is just because of her. She moved out in april and from april to november 2010 my life was a living hell. It really really was bad.
But, again, I love that girl like no one else. She belongs in my life some way or another. I'd rather die (literally) than let her go. So it was worth the pain it cost me. But as I said before to someone here; It's because she is so brilliant. I'm not sure if I could do this with everyone.

It is for me. I hug and cuddle with a lot of my girlfriends.
And yeah you do get a boner sometimes. So what. And sometimes you touch eachother in a way we feel is a bit too close. And then you stop. I've been in a situation with a girl (not Fleur) where I actually had to jerk off because I was going mad. So that's what I did. The key to all this strange stuff is trust and a lot of communication. I have brilliant relationships with all my girlfriends (as in female friends, I don't now a good word for that). They know pretty much everything about me, I know everything about them. Also sex-wise. It really helps when you can just discuss these things.

Ghehe, I do it with regular friends who have a boyfriend, so why shouldn't I do it with the one I (still) love most?

He does. And I'm not sure what would have happened had he prohibited her to do so. I mean, she definitely wouldn't have stopped seeing me. I'm not sure what she tells him. She tells him we hug I guess.
And as I've said, we probably did some things he wouldn't have liked in the very beginning. But at that time their relationship was a bit vague.
Eitherway, we're really close still. She does lay on top of me now and then, I do see her naked (why not, I've seen her naked for all these years) but I can honestly say that's all that has happened for faaaaar over a year now.
Pretty proud of that. Altough I probably wouldn't stop her, should she decide she wanted something more. I don't really like the new guy. That matters for me. I have another friend who's in love with me. And I'm in love with her. She has a great, great boyfriend. I really like the guy, so I stay away from her (except for the occasional hugging and cuddling). I can do that. It's not like I don't get turned on by her or like I don't want to do anything more, but I just won't. I can't promise you it'll never happen though. I know it's hard .

Frankly I don't give a ****. As for me, I would be fine with it.
How can anyone be together with someone for years and years and after that not talk to him anymore. Asking that from my (future) girlfriend seems a bit respectless. The guy was part of her life and there's a reason she was with him. I think I should respect that.
It's easy for me to say, as I'm pro open relationships.
No treesomes with guys and not ****ing a girl right after she did it with some other guy. But I allow a friggin' lot. It's all about trust. When I trust my girlfriend, I'm sure she loves me more than any other guy (or, in my last relationship, girl ). So I don't mind letting her be free. I don't mind her messing around a bit. I just have to be sure I'm the one she wants to be with in the end.
Staggered, are you?

I'm really a hippie without the drugs. Love for everyone, psychedelic music, brown and orange, old vans with curtains, long hair, beard, anarchy, the lot. And I have the whole package, apart from the drugs.

I wouldn't start dating a girl without knowing that. Just as much as I wouldn't date a girl without knowing what music she likes and whether she likes animals. Fleur (my ex-girlfriend)is part of my life. Just as much as music is.
Every girl I know knows about Fleur and me. I just want them to know so there's no doubt about that. And I don't have the feeling any of them would consider it a problem. Probably we're a bit more free here in the Netherlands, or it's just my girlfriends who think like this. I'm not sure. But I wouldn't leave Fleur for anyone. Just like I wouldn't leave any other girlfriend I really love for Fleur.
Again: It's all about trusting eachother. My girlfriend will have to trust that I only hug and cuddle with Fleur. She'll have to be fine with that.

Fleur and I have known eachother since we were 14 and 16.
We really built op our lives together. Both as friends and in a relationship.
We're pretty much friends for life. And hugging is a big, big part of that. She doesn't really like hugging with many other people. She does find a kind of warmth and rest with me that she doesn't find with anybody else. And I have the same thing with her. We really need eachother.

So, hope you can understand anything I'm saying.
I don't mind answering more questions, I don't mind when you don't understand any of this. I just hope you'll believe me, as impossible as some of this may seem to believe.

P.s.: 2:54am. She texted me to tell her she has pain because of her period and can't sleep. I sent her back an sms with some tips and a lot of digital hugs. That's us. 2:54am, waking up, not feeling good, comforting eachother. Any time, any place, anything. It doesn't matter whether she wants to scream something weird like 'I want pancakes!' or something like this. We're a team man. We won't live without eachother.

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Howard the Duck

cool! hook him up with me - they call me Mr. Lim in the office

djchameleon

wow sk wow....that's all i have to say.

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.

Dr.Seussicide

Putting the pussy on a pedestal...

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