Paedantic Basterd

Why do you lot pride yourselves on being insufferable? The internet is a silly place.

Ninetales

let it out brother, it's cathartic

ftr I think its normal to feel empathetic of someone you were once close with's (especially an ex) current situation. doesn't mean youre not moving forward, but remembering (not dwelling on) the past is still important imo

Key

Because you don't have to live every day afraid to run into the ex that cheated on you turning your life into an enormous ****hole. And instead of her choosing somewhere else to live, she decides to keep her manipulative bull**** 5 minutes from where I live. It's not just coincidence, it's her being a conniving bitch that won't stop until I'm at her feet begging for forgiveness. Especially when I did nothing wrong. So when I see her on the street, my natural tendency based on human nature is to feel bad because I know she can be better.

I don't have feelings for her, but nobody really deserves to be homeless in the coldest winter we've had in years.

So if that makes me a pussy, so be it.

Zhanteimi

Don't beg for forgiveness, but also don't act like you don't see her. If she puts herself in your way, talk to her. Act like everything is normal and it will be. Ask her if she needs any help. Be the human.

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The Batlord

Aren't you the Jesus freak?

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Zhanteimi

^Yep. Fuck you.

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Paedantic Basterd

I've always been the kind of person who can't move on from a relationship without total severance of contact. And no, sometimes that's not possible, and it's extremely difficult. You've got to choose non-contact where it's possible to do so, and when it's not, you just have to weather the **** storm and hope you come out on the other side. Good luck, sincerely.

Key

That's probably the dumbest thing I've ever heard anyone say. This isn't a normal situation. While she's been able to manipulate her way out of homelessness for a month or so, I've been getting her bills to my address, her debt, and her constant somehow getting my number to tell me about her happiness and marriage. If she was in another state it'd be different, but she's doing what she can to make me feel bad of all people.

Key

This is pretty much how it is. She was the first person I was ever with. I shared all my "first relationship" stuff with her so to see her in this state isn't an easy thing to consume. I try to not let it bother me, but today it really is. Watching her sneak into a McDonalds was lower than anything I've ever seen.

Zhanteimi

Normal for you, numbnuts. Not her.

LiL is another human being, and she is suffering. Do you have the means to ease her suffering? If so, help her! For the love of God. Put aside your history, your pride, whatever, and be the human.

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