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The Batlord 03-18-2017 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by innerspaceboy (Post 1814923)
Taking firm action to eliminate the two most toxic elements of my life - filing for divorce from my abusive wife and I've landed an interview Monday to leave my abusive work environment.

A real reset and a major upheaval but all of it to better my life situation.

Wish me luck with both everyone.

****, man, that sucks, but at at least you're fixing this ****. And don't forget...


YOU'RE SINGLE AGAIN!!!

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Frownland 03-18-2017 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1814837)
Tonight, bitches


Last minute ride cancellations are awesome huh.

Tristan_Geoff 03-18-2017 11:20 PM

WAT THE **** MY BLODDDY VALETINE SOUDNS AWESOME HGIH WHAT THE HELLL

fucck the csonr ass hoess

Janszoon 03-19-2017 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by innerspaceboy (Post 1814923)
Taking firm action to eliminate the two most toxic elements of my life - filing for divorce from my abusive wife and I've landed an interview Monday to leave my abusive work environment.

A real reset and a major upheaval but all of it to better my life situation.

Wish me luck with both everyone.

Good luck!

innerspaceboy 03-19-2017 08:45 AM

Thank you, everyone, for your support. I'll be sure to update you when there is news to share.

grindy 03-19-2017 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by innerspaceboy (Post 1814923)
Taking firm action to eliminate the two most toxic elements of my life - filing for divorce from my abusive wife and I've landed an interview Monday to leave my abusive work environment.

A real reset and a major upheaval but all of it to better my life situation.

Wish me luck with both everyone.

Good luck.

Haven't you two married just a few months ago?

Tristan_Geoff 03-19-2017 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by innerspaceboy (Post 1814923)
Taking firm action to eliminate the two most toxic elements of my life - filing for divorce from my abusive wife and I've landed an interview Monday to leave my abusive work environment.

A real reset and a major upheaval but all of it to better my life situation.

Wish me luck with both everyone.

What?? Abusive wife?? What happened? You were all about her just a few months ago, I think I've missed how it's progressed since then.

innerspaceboy 03-19-2017 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by grindy (Post 1814982)
Good luck.

Haven't you two married just a few months ago?

We've lived together for nearly 3 years but yes - we only wed about 7 months ago. The abuse and mental illness were present early on, but I remained patient (perhaps far longer than I should have) and was encouraging with the hope that she would seek counseling, medication, and be proactive to improve her situation.

Sadly, things only got worse after she moved in with me. And after a few of life's slings and arrows, she spiraled downward into severe mental illness, financial dependency, mania, rage fits, verbal abuse, a complete lack of hygiene, and generally stopped caring for herself.

I won't bore you with the gory details, but suffice it to say that she's been very sick for a long time and that the relationship has been irreparably unhealthy.

I've endured abusive relationships in the past - my last before the marriage was 7 years with a verbally and physically abusive hoarder who similarly let her life collapse and who was also completely financially dependent on me. I'm not going to wait through another 6 years of the same, and instead I'm taking the necessary action to better the circumstance for both myself and for my wife. This will force her to take responsibility for herself, to find a job, and to seek therapy.

I apologize for the mess. I'm tidying up presently.

The Batlord 03-19-2017 09:52 AM

Yesterday while walking into a movie theater some chick a few feet from me said, "Hey, cutie!" and it took me a few seconds to realize that she was talking to me. By this point I was already walking past her and going for the door so I didn't even say anything back, but I gotta say, kind of offended. Not because I was being singled out in public and objectified. That was nice. I felt degraded because she was a Shrekapotamus. I'm too shallow for this world.

DwnWthVwls 03-19-2017 10:14 AM

Good luck with everything Spaceboy. It's good that you have the strength and foresight to make a good decision for yourself now before it gets worse.


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