"Shut up, bitch."

You're welcome.

I give it a month.

I don't know how many times you need to hear from people that you are in an unhealthy relationship. Your unreasonable expectations and romantic delusions are keeping you from seeing that a happier world is possible, with a different partner.

Leave her and get the hell out of your crazy living situation with your crazy friends.

It’s about to get worse:

yikes

Honestly I think he’s on a better path that you

I love you but a teaching career and twins?

Give me elph’s crew of velvet wannabes anyday

Just keeping it 100

I mean to each their own but at least I'm happy, comfortable in my relationship, have friendships that make me feel like a consistently better person, am not coked up, and am not trapped into thinking my partner is "my other half in another body."

I'm not telling Elph to have a "traditional life." I'm just saying the dude ain't happy, but he's too dull to realize it. I'm happy with my life, and that's all I'm really looking for. I lived enough of my life without safety or emotional wellbeing, so what I've got now feels like heaven.

but then where would his personality go?

I'm sorry to hear that man.

He would find one that wasn't built out of stimulants and being a creepazoid.

It's probably the casual misogyny.