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Old 03-15-2004, 09:36 PM   #1 (permalink)
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People seem to put up alot of personal help things, so I figure "Hell, I got problems too, why dont I?" So I am .

You see, theres this really hot girl who lives about 45 minutes from me that I have a for sure with, If ya know what I mean. and then theres this other girl who goes to my school that I see everyday, whos also VERY attractive, that I have a pretty good chance with.

I have alot more in common with distance girl, but close girl is really more my type. I've also already led on distance girl to think that we will be doing certain things next time we see each other, which wont be very often considering I dont have a liscence, or any other decent mean of transportation.

Should I test out my loyalty, and go for distance girl whos a for sure, or should I do the logical thing, blow off my plans with distance girl to have fun with close girl, whos a probably for sure.??

Im confused the hell out of.. anything you guys got.. welcome
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Old 03-15-2004, 09:48 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Wow... hey Rock? When are you gonna make the Dear Abby section? Hehe... just kidding... Seems like you've already made a decision about who you should pick. I mean you said the closer girl is very good looking, more your type, and you still have a chance with.

So what do you mean by sure thing? Makes me think you're talking about physical stuff. Which is cool either way, but if I'm right you need to decide what you want. The sure bet physical with the distance girl or the more relationship stuff with the girl who's more your type.

I'll tell you one thing though that long distance is tough... especially when you don't have a car. I went to a catholic school when I was in high school so my friends were all over the place. Luckily most my friends that were far were walking distance from the local train system but still some had to be driven to the mall near me or me get a ride to the mall near them... and that was sometimes a pain. I broke it off with several girls because of the long distance and that was only like 20 minutes away.

You gotta do what you gotta do. And you really need to go with your gut but do a head check to make sure you're following your gut for the right reasons... and that's my 2 cents plus an extra nickel cuz I like ya.
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Old 03-15-2004, 10:12 PM   #3 (permalink)
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very cool, well yeah the distance girl is alot of physical stuff, but she wants a relationship i can tell.. which wouldnt work.

maybe what i should do is break things off with the distance chick and see if when we have cars the will to try it again is still there?
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Old 03-15-2004, 10:17 PM   #4 (permalink)
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That sounds like a plan. But I wouldn't be "hunting" the closer girl just to give her up when you get a car? Saavy?
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Old 03-15-2004, 10:18 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I say...

Relationship = close girl

When its over = Nail the far chick
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Old 03-15-2004, 11:26 PM   #6 (permalink)
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haha, thrice. wow first girl to reply to this. ok, well first of all with the distance girl, if she wants a relationship and you kinda dont, it wont work, and someone will just end up getting hurt, so i'd say go for the close girl. it seems like you two are more on the same page, plus you'll actually be able to see each other, which is always good. well sometimes, it gets difficult if you see them every day and you know you're going to break up with them, even more so when they're in your circle of friends.
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Old 03-15-2004, 11:29 PM   #7 (permalink)
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well sometimes, it gets difficult if you see them every day and you know you're going to break up with them, even more so when they're in your circle of friends.
True but for the relationship, I think it's better that your sig other is in your group of friends. So that person doesn't feel alienated... s/he feels a part of your life... True it gets sticky at the break up but then again... not much of a break up is easy.
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Old 03-16-2004, 02:16 PM   #8 (permalink)
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well, not much i can say, most of you already said it. i'm just too slow. well yea if you pretty much need to decide if you want physical or relationship. but with the distance it would be pretty hard on both of you especially if you have no means of transportation. soooooooo yea... that's all i have to say about that.
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Old 03-16-2004, 06:01 PM   #9 (permalink)
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WHy? Why must you all be so logical! humph... well i hadnt talked to distantce in over two weeks hoping maybe she'd make the desicion for me by losing interest but then i got her email.. and that just confused me even more.. well tomorrow close chicks coming over so we'll see what happens
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Old 03-16-2004, 07:53 PM   #10 (permalink)
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yous a pimp. lol

wow... everytime i read one of your posts i sit there at look at your icon thing a few times. haha. i think it's addicting.
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