When did the concept of death really, truly, sink in?

OccultHawk · 06-15-2017, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

Yes even Trump. Humans over animals every single time.

Humans are animals.

djchameleon · 06-15-2017, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk

Humans are animals.

Your mom is an animal.

OccultHawk · 06-15-2017, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

Your mom is an animal.

Yeah. I heard you and your small ***got dick couldn't handle her.

DwnWthVwls · 06-15-2017, 04:29 PM

I've understood and accepted death for a long time.. When I was 18, I watched my dad suffer through 6 months of lung cancer before finally dying. I cried for about 3 minutes, and haven't shed a tear or thought much about it since. He talked to me about **** because he knew I understood these things and didn't treat him differently. I remember the day he finally lost his faith in beating it and he told me, "I don't think I'm going to make it threw the summer". I said something along the lines of trying to enjoy the time he had left.

I guess I'm dead inside, but death is a non-factor for the most part. I understand death is a part of life. Yes, it can be sad but life goes on, we all die, it's expected. The real bitch is losing people who aren't dead, that's when I have trouble dealing with loss. When the people you want in your life are still around, but too busy doing their own thing or you've had a falling out.

The Batlord · 06-15-2017, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk

I've heard that. You treat your dog better than you treat people. Damn straight. It's not all dogs. I don't give a **** about someone else's dog. Dogs are the only real ride or die homies you'll ever have. I'm inclined to return the sentiment.

Agreed with the last sentence. If a dog bonds with you and would give its life to protect yours, then it would be a betrayal if you weren't willing to do the same. If you aren't willing to save your animal from a burning building then you probably shouldn't own anything above a fish.

Zhanteimi · 06-15-2017, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

The idea of oblivion really hit me like a brick. I was pretty much inconsolable and constantly freaked out for at least a week. Don't know if I ever quite got over it actually.

"I am the Resurrection and the Life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live."

Of course everyone's body dies, but that's not the end of you. You are more than your body. Your trepidation could be interpreted as evidence of you being more than the physical. And yet, the physical is essential to humanity. Hence the resurrection. We can get new, glorified bodies.

I'm not judging you. I hope all the best for you. This post will get shit on, I know. But I had to put that out there for you, Batlord, because I care about you and your eternal destiny.

OccultHawk · 06-15-2017, 05:33 PM

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This post will get **** on, I know.

That's an insult to people's ****.

The Batlord · 06-15-2017, 05:34 PM

As long as Satan sucks my dick real good at least once I'll be good.

Trollheart · 06-15-2017, 05:34 PM

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Really? I love animals and that, but na.

Bu do you or have you owned a pet? Other than a monkey, of course.

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk

The word "selfish" hints that you might getting that feeling, too. Acceptance isn't at all the same as being suicidal.

Yeah. That's how people are. If they wouldn't feel it they don't think you should either. I've heard it said that losing a dog hurts some people more than losing a parent. I can't tell them what they're feeling.

No, I just mean I have to consider what my dying would mean to the most important one left behind, who relies on me for, well, life basically.

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The pet thing has always been weird for me. When I was a little kid I'd cry pretty hard when a pet died, and my mom is a pet collector so there were plenty of pets to cry over, from cats to goldfish to hamsters to dogs. Then I got older and more jaded about **** in general and for years I wouldn't even get teary eyed when a pet died. Then a couple years ago this cat who'd really bonded with me died and I was just the biggest, dribbliest, sobbiest wreck. I think it's actually been a good thing though, cause even though I've had countless pets die, there's always been a new one. Not that they replace the first pet, but the first pet had its own special, unique place in my life, but even if that place was now empty that didn't mean that pet #2 wouldn't find their own place in my life that would eventually feel like a necessary component to my existence. Life just goes on and brings new things that don't diminish the old things, and with that comes a change to the feeling of life itself.

This is exactly right. You don't just go out and replace your beloved pet, of course, but after a suitable time you should really. You can then lavish all the love you had on your pet who passed away on the new pet. It's always different every time though: you never forget each pet who dies, and one does not, as you say, replace the other in any real meaningful way.

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I've had one pet in my life that we had to put to sleep but I was so young at the time I hadn't really bonded with the dog much and didn't feel much empathy. But soon after, we got 2 related dogs and I've pretty much had them since I started remembering most things. I love my dogs, more so one over the other. But there's a major bond and sometimes it keeps me up at night wondering when they might die and how heartbroken I would be. I'd had special real bonding times with them my whole life and my life would just feel weird without them. Sucks because they're getting into that old age now. Those signs are there like infections and episodes and fits. All these problems are not getting much better, although not much worse yet. But it's inevitable, and I dread the day it happens, so I try to comfort them as much as possible and give them the best last days I can give them. This thread is depressing.

Just remember, when the time comes, you can't be selfish. When it's time to let them go, just do it. Don't keep them hanging on in pain or misery.

Bolded: Yeah, who woulda thought it?

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What about cats, though?

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

Yes even Trump. Humans over animals every single time.

But Trump is an animal.

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls

I've understood and accepted death for a long time.. When I was 18, I watched my dad suffer through 6 months of lung cancer before finally dying. I cried for about 3 minutes, and haven't shed a tear or thought much about it since. He talked to me about **** because he knew I understood these things and didn't treat him differently. I remember the day he finally lost his faith in beating it and he told me, "I don't think I'm going to make it threw the summer". I said something along the lines of trying to enjoy the time he had left.

I guess I'm dead inside, but death is a non-factor for the most part. I understand death is a part of life. Yes, it can be sad but life goes on, we all die, it's expected. The real bitch is losing people who aren't dead, that's when I have trouble dealing with loss. When the people you want in your life are still around, but too busy doing their own thing or you've had a falling out.

Sorry but I'm a little offended at that. There's no comparison. Dead is dead; losing touch you always have the chance of a reconciliation or chance meeting.

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"I am the Resurrection and the Life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live."

Of course everyone's body dies, but that's not the end of you. You are more than your body. Your trepidation could be interpreted as evidence of you being more than the physical. And yet, the physical is essential to humanity. Hence the resurrection. We can get new, glorified bodies.

I'm not judging you. I hope all the best for you. This post will get shit on, I know. But I had to put that out there for you, Batlord, because I care about you and your eternal destiny.

Zhanteimi · 06-15-2017, 05:38 PM

All right.

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