The Relationship Thread

[WWWP]

Originally Posted by goldendoodle

God, yes so many are like that. Literally my dad (a human disaster)

My dad too! Omg queer Bad Dad Club

[OccultHawk]

Originally Posted by WWWP

PSA: Unless I say specifically that I am needing advice (which I won't ever do, I don't trust any of you) don't assume that when I pose questions or share things from my experience that I am having trouble with something, or that I'm asking for your input on my relationships, or that I have some issue that you're going to be the one to solve lol. I was just asking for different perspectives I DON'T NEED YOUR ADVICE yall constantly read me wrong anyway.

I’ll be sure make a clear distinction in the future then

... damn girl

[goldendoodle]

Originally Posted by WWWP

My dad too! Omg queer Bad Dad Club

queer Bad Dad Club!!!! Literally. We all need matching jackets with that emblazoned on the back.

[Marie Monday]

Originally Posted by WWWP

PSA: Unless I say specifically that I am needing advice (which I won't ever do, I don't trust any of you) don't assume that when I pose questions or share things from my experience that I am having trouble with something, or that I'm asking for your input on my relationships, or that I have some issue that you're going to be the one to solve lol. I was just asking for different perspectives I DON'T NEED YOUR ADVICE yall constantly read me wrong anyway.

there's a thin line between different perspectives and advice, tbf. Just keep in mind that no one is trying to patronise you, it's mostly caring.

[OccultHawk]

Originally Posted by elphenor

yeah well you don't know yet

What does this mean?

[WWWP]

Originally Posted by Marie Monday

there's a thin line between different perspectives and advice, tbf. Just keep in mind that no one is trying to patronise you, it's mostly caring.

I don't feel patronized at all, I'm just communicating that I don't like it. I think you can have a dialogue about pretty much anything without offering unsolicited advice. I was really just curious what others would have to say, but it turned into me having to clarify misinterpreted information about the girl I'm seeing. I thought I worded my question in a way that made it clear it was about comparing opinions, not seeking advice. It's all good, I'm just setting that boundary.

[WWWP]

Originally Posted by OccultHawk

What does this mean?

That I'm "new" to women I think lol

But what do I know, I'm just damaged goods.

[OccultHawk]

Originally Posted by WWWP

That I'm "new" to women I think lol

But what do I know, I'm just damaged goods.

Since when did men stop getting beat up and ****?

[OccultHawk]

Originally Posted by elphenor

I'm not advocating for writing anyone off, damaged people should be friends

Are you trying to troll?

[Marie Monday]

Originally Posted by WWWP

I don't feel patronized at all, I'm just communicating that I don't like it. I think you can have a dialogue about pretty much anything without offering unsolicited advice. I was really just curious what others would have to say, but it turned into me having to clarify misinterpreted information about the girl I'm seeing. I thought I worded my question in a way that made it clear it was about comparing opinions, not seeking advice. It's all good, I'm just setting that boundary.

Of course, I know that offering unsolicited advice is generally not a good idea. This place doesn't bring out the most subtle communication skills in people though. Cheers for setting boundaries.

@everyone, keep it cool