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captaincaptain 06-12-2011 07:44 AM

The Stranglers - Walk On By

I was going to use Dionne Warwick's version, but this someone has more edge to it.



The White Stripes - I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself



Naked Eyes - (There's) Always Something There to Remind Me



What do all these songs have in common?

starrynight 06-12-2011 01:02 PM

I don't know if it's been mentioned yet


Howard the Duck 06-12-2011 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by captaincaptain (Post 1069024)
The Stranglers - Walk On By

I was going to use Dionne Warwick's version, but this someone has more edge to it.



The White Stripes - I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself



Naked Eyes - (There's) Always Something There to Remind Me



What do all these songs have in common?

they're all Bacharach/David songs

captaincaptain 06-16-2011 07:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Il Duce (Post 1069281)
they're all Bacharach/David songs

Yes, sir.

Howard the Duck 06-16-2011 07:15 AM



if the above isn't anti-"love", I dunno what is

The Virgin 06-16-2011 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Il Duce (Post 1071587)


if the above isn't anti-"love", I dunno what is

that's not anti-love.
in fact, there's that one line, i forgot as i was streaming, that pretty much talks about falling in love.

VEGANGELICA 06-16-2011 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Il Duce (Post 1071587)


if the above isn't anti-"love", I dunno what is

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Originally Posted by The Virgin (Post 1071604)
that's not anti-love.in fact, there's that one line, i forgot as i was streaming, that pretty much talks about falling in love.

And my vote goes to....

Il Duce! Yeayyyyy! (Crowd goes wild.)

Virgin, I read the lyrics at ANTI-NOWHERE LEAGUE - SO WHAT LYRICS and I agree with Duce that this song is definitely anti-love...

unless one counts raping goats and sheep as love! :laughing:

Engine 06-16-2011 07:04 PM

You ****ed Up
 

captaincaptain 06-16-2011 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by VEGANGELICA (Post 1072098)
And my vote goes to....

Il Duce! Yeayyyyy! (Crowd goes wild.)

Virgin, I read the lyrics at ANTI-NOWHERE LEAGUE - SO WHAT LYRICS and I agree with Duce that this song is definitely anti-love...

unless one counts raping goats and sheep as love! :laughing:

In some circles, it is.

Captain Ron 06-17-2011 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Neapolitan (Post 1038762)
I was thinking of doing a thread just like this. Some of my favorite love songs are not about being in love, but about love gone wrong or like you say "anti-love" and I such a hard time thinking of a positive love song for "favourite love song" thread.

During the 60's I can't think of a group who wrote better negative love songs than the Rolling Stones, while The Beatles songs were about holding hands and the feeling of walking on cloud 9, the Stones had a darker side, they were more cynical and realistic. "Backstreet Girl" is one of my favorite if not my favorite Rolling Stones song, I think the music is amazing, it has such a folksy (European) sound, and the lyrics are a complete downer. I would love to go into detail what I think the song is about, (like does he love her or is he being mean to her) but I don't know if I should go into detail, because really it could mean something different to someone else. When people listen to a song, everyone has their own interpretation of the song.


great song

6underground 06-17-2011 02:09 AM


paradoxguy 07-08-2011 03:25 PM

Another candidate
 
I tend to gravitate towards non-love and anti-love songs as I find most love songs saccharine and icky, although I admittedly like a warm love song if placed in the right setting (movie scene, real life scene). However, I don't like just any anti-love song, it has to be at least executed somewhat wittily and/or with some humor. The candidates that fit these criteria are:

"Can't Get You on My Mind" - Adam Schmitt (World So Bright)

"Used to Love Her" - Guns N'Roses (G N'R Lies)

"Too Drunk to F---" - Dead Kennedys (Give Me Convenience or Give Me Death)

Honorable Mention: "The One I Love" - REM (Document) [didn't quite make the list as it's a little too direct with little wit or humor.]

PG

LoathsomePete 07-08-2011 03:35 PM



Played this many a times after a breakup, helps me every time :)

Janszoon 07-08-2011 09:52 PM



Suicidal Tendencies—"Won't Fall In Love Today"
I definitely listened to this one quite a bit when I was young and fed up with the bullshit of dating. Unlike most of the songs that come to mind for me when I think of anti-love songs, it's not a bitter breakup song. Instead it is literally anti-love, a pre-emptive strike against the idea of falling in love.

Neapolitan 07-08-2011 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain Ron (Post 1072243)
great song

Thanks Ron, sorry for the delayed response.


VEGANGELICA 07-21-2011 09:57 AM

The Rolling Stones - "The Last Time"
Depressing.



Quote:

Originally Posted by captaincaptain (Post 1069024)
Naked Eyes - (There's) Always Something There to Remind Me


I love "There's Always Something There To Remind me!" :) I actually think of it as a love song, though, and not an anti-love song, because the singer obviously cared enough about the singee (?) to wander around remembering her.

The typos in the video were pretty funny: "If you should find you miss the sweet and tender lover we used to share..." :laughing:

Mrd00d 07-21-2011 01:02 PM



Rockin' out to the anti-love jams.

davidesamulson 07-27-2011 12:04 PM

well i just hate anti love songs.Life is nothing without love.

VEGANGELICA 08-20-2011 04:55 AM

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Originally Posted by davidesamulson (Post 1089530)
well i just hate anti love songs.Life is nothing without love.

Ah...but you see, you *hate*. Songs that express hatred don't mean that life is without love.

Anti-love songs are all about how we deal with disappointment. Being able to express that in ways that aren't horribly destructive is *part* of love.

Haven't you ever felt angry that people you love can affect you so much that what they do can result in your feeling bad? More generally speaking, I love life, but I hate life for being finite. The fact that there is life as distinct from death means that all those whom I love will be killed off. Music lets us express our ambivalences and contrasting emotions. I feel it is better and more loving to admit them rather than hide them.

Tonight I happened upon this anti-love song, "Rotten Love," by The Briefs and I love the sound of it! I'd never heard of The Briefs before, a punk band from Seattle, Washington (The Briefs - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia).

The song reminds me of some by two groups I like, The Breeders and Polvo, because of the jangly feel and strong beat. I also like how the lyrics don't shy away from expressing just a teensy, tiny bit of frustration:

Quote:

From: "Rotten Love" by The Briefs

Just shut your mouth, close your eyes.
You're in for quite a surprise.
Something for nothing, but nothing's for free.

I'd like to twist of your head.
I think you'd look better dead.
No change for someone, not someone like me.

Rotten rotten love, rotten rotten love, rotten rotten love.

THE BRIEFS - ROTTEN LOVE LYRICS
Cheerful, no? ;)

The Briefs - Rotten Love


djchameleon 08-28-2011 06:29 AM

Go West- King Of Wishful Thinking


Most of the song feels like he is going to do fine getting over her but under the surface it seems like he has to convince himself that he's no longer in love with her when he is. I was going to put this in the love thread side but I guess it can be anti love as well

fanlaure 08-31-2011 08:57 PM

"Imagination" in Laure Shang's new album "In", its Chinese name should be translated as "Absurd Love".

DevonWilliams 09-13-2011 05:05 PM


Sara Bareilles - Love Song - YouTube

Lol

Dulce 11-12-2013 03:45 PM

love you like a love song.


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