I'm having trouble..
 

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Theres my band.

Notice in our music, that the singing follows the rhythm?
I want to get away from that, but i'm a bass player so ryhthm is in my playing..

I think maybe if I wrote my songs differently?
Like.. which way do people usually write them?
I'm trying to get a feel for it, tips?

Take a look at Daughtry's stuff maybe.