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Old 04-26-2019, 11:06 AM   #51 (permalink)
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I've seen more surprising turnarounds. It's usually conflating the power of being a part of a social network that religion tends to provide with their belief in god as the solution to their problems.
But if you get over that hump of addiction then aren't you going to need to keep that social network to maintain your sobriety? I don't see JWB as being particularly able to build a new, "secular" social network of actual friends and whatnot so won't he be stuck? I imagine the comedown from realizing your new god boy friends are goofballs and then having nobody to cling to to keep you away from becoming a hole-in-the-ground-you-pour-booze-into will just make you hit the sauce harder.
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There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.
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Old 04-26-2019, 11:10 AM   #52 (permalink)
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But if you get over that hump of addiction
It definitely doesn't work like that based on my experiences with alcoholics and addicts. I think that for the majority of people, addiction is a lifelong struggle.
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Old 04-26-2019, 11:13 AM   #53 (permalink)
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That's sad. Substance abuse is terrible but that **** is even worse.
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Old 04-26-2019, 11:17 AM   #54 (permalink)
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addiction is a lifelong struggle.
Quote on alcohol.

"It is a very, very patient drug. It will always be there waiting for you to pick it up one more time." - Mercedes McCambridge (the voice of the devil in Exorcist)

I set 100 days as my initial goal. Got there and was feeling pretty good about it. Even went a bit public for the first time.

Day 101 was a massive struggle to avoid the f*cking dude sitting outside scratching at my door at night.

Stopped counting days after that.
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Old 04-26-2019, 11:38 AM   #55 (permalink)
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It definitely doesn't work like that based on my experiences with alcoholics and addicts. I think that for the majority of people, addiction is a lifelong struggle.
Yeah I know but I meant the initial hump of quitting and withdrawal and getting yourself back on some kind of even keel.
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Old 04-26-2019, 11:43 AM   #56 (permalink)
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Well then maybe we shouldn't scratch new JWB alts off of the list of possibilities.
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Old 04-26-2019, 11:49 AM   #57 (permalink)
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I was assuming we're just trying to antagonize him into doing that.
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Old 10-20-2019, 09:35 AM   #58 (permalink)
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So, I know he's back. WTF is he?

JWB!???

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Old 10-20-2019, 09:38 AM   #59 (permalink)
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So, I know he's back. WTF is he?

JWB!???

hey elph had a meltdown

any words of advice for our drunken lovesick fool?
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hey elph had a meltdown
Severity on a scale of 1 to 99?
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