The Negative Effects of Porn (May be NSFW)

**Goofle** · 07-03-2013, 05:04 PM

(May be NSFW)

Newkie · 07-03-2013, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Hermione

He wasn't really a pimp, just a hapless abusive weiner. He wanted to get into sex work too and I was like bruh no one like u but me

IDK crushing animals is pretty goddamn awful to me, I'd rather crush a dude's balls than an animal

Incest fantasies, like she wanted to **** her dad or her siblings? that's....different

No no that's totally what I was saying. If someone wants their balls crushed then fair doos, but leave the animals alone mayne

But yeah, your fella sounded like a right bellend.

And yeah, she'd fantasized about ****ing her dad. You'd usually think troubled childhood or abuse or whatever but she had none of that. Just a complete sex addict I guess, she must have had three or four continuous ****buddies on the go whilst living with a boyfriend who was fine with it all. That on its own was a bit too ****ed up for my liking.

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 07-03-2013, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by CrazyVegn

^I can't believe that one guy had sex w/ a horse then died. Ppl say stuff like "serves him right", etc...

I watch porn once in awhile and it involves two humans (male/female) or many male and one female. I do not feel any different after watching my occasional rape porn :P

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Originally Posted by Newkie

That's actually a very good point.

I think thinking of this "service to society" thing in extreme cases like rape or pedophilia is way too extreme and you can argue both sides of the coin and come out with **** all. But at the lower level, like just visiting or a prostitue, or even just watching porn can be considered a service surely.

Has visiting a prostitute saved a marriage? Could be. I bet watching porn definitely has, there are probably loads of blokes who want more or something different than their wife will give them, or visa versa, so they turn to porn. Now while I don't condone those actions I find it hard to come down one way or the other how beneficial it is. If a man watches porn and this stops him having an affair that would break a marriage and scar his kids etc-is that not a benefit to society? Immoral perhaps, but when does morality on its own standing further society?

Anyway, they provide more of a service to society than say football agents (or agents in general), call centre operators or the infamous "no armani, no punani" toilet crowd. Those people actually detract from my life as a human being in a way no sex worker ever has, simply because they don't inconvenience me on a daily basis.

the amount of reaching is crazy between you and chameleon. i would bet anything that prostitutes have ruined more marriages than they've saved.

even regardless of whether sex workers provide a service to society (my opinion is almost every job provides a more valuable service), my point is more that society in general doesn't think they do. And I think that's a big factor in why sex workers feel looked down on. Not that i think they should be surprised or the people doing the down-looking are wrong. i think we all judge others.

CrazyVegn · 07-03-2013, 09:30 PM

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Originally Posted by 216

I'm a psycho

Newkie · 07-04-2013, 03:10 AM

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Originally Posted by 216

the amount of reaching is crazy between you and chameleon. i would bet anything that prostitutes have ruined more marriages than they've saved.

Based on what? Both sides are entirely opinion as nobody has any "stats" and information on it is impossible to pin down. I notice you completed avoided the porn aspect as well-they too are sex workers. Do they ruin marriges? Could well do, especially on an emotional level, but I imagine there are probably a lot of times where it is of no consequence at all. Perhaps it even helps the elderly in their marriges to keep at it, I guess when the children of the internet age get there we'll be able to see more clearly.

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Originally Posted by 216

even regardless of whether sex workers provide a service to society (my opinion is almost every job provides a more valuable service), my point is more that society in general doesn't think they do. And I think that's a big factor in why sex workers feel looked down on. Not that i think they should be surprised or the people doing the down-looking are wrong. i think we all judge others.

Fair enough, I happen to think they are of middling value, I don't think they hinder society as much as other professions and I don't come into contact with them so they don't bother me. I don't see why they should care what society feels and if they are happy with what they're doing, leave em to it.

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 07-05-2013, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Newkie

Based on what? Both sides are entirely opinion as nobody has any "stats" and information on it is impossible to pin down. I notice you completed avoided the porn aspect as well-they too are sex workers. Do they ruin marriges? Could well do, especially on an emotional level, but I imagine there are probably a lot of times where it is of no consequence at all. Perhaps it even helps the elderly in their marriges to keep at it, I guess when the children of the internet age get there we'll be able to see more clearly.

Fair enough, I happen to think they are of middling value, I don't think they hinder society as much as other professions and I don't come into contact with them so they don't bother me. I don't see why they should care what society feels and if they are happy with what they're doing, leave em to it.

based on common sense mainly. if i had to venture a guess I would guess porn probably ruins and helps the same amount of marriages. This is all way off track to what I was getting at anyway. My point was that sex workers provide very, very little to society and that's a large part of why they are looked down upon, which I think does make sense. I don't think sex workers/prostitutes really damage society too much, I just don't think they help it either whereas most other jobs do.

djchameleon · 07-05-2013, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by 216

I don't think sex workers/prostitutes really damage society too much, I just don't think they help it either whereas most other jobs do.

I disagree with you on this last bit here. How does oldest profession in the world NOT benefit society? People tend to sit on their moral high horses and look down on sex workers belittling what they do contribute.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 07-05-2013, 01:37 PM

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 07-05-2013, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

I disagree with you on this last bit here. How does oldest profession in the world NOT benefit society? People tend to sit on their moral high horses and look down on sex workers belittling what they do contribute.

What does being the oldest profession have to do with anything? It's the oldest profession because it's a way to make money with no skills lol. So im not sure what that does for your argument.

i didnt check out those links but i imagine many pornstars probably regret their choices because a lot probably enter porn when they are young and young people make mistakes.

i also dont think all porn is degrading, just some of it

Arya Stark · 07-05-2013, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

Nobody here is saying there aren't people who have had bad experiences.
People are saying that you can't take bad experiences for those of the industry as a whole.
Many do enjoy it.

Did you even read my post before?

By assuming all women are forced to do certain things or are forced to be in the porn industry, you're taking away those that feel empowered by these same decisions.

07-05-2013, 01:37 PM	#308 (permalink)
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