AVP is actually not a bad addition to the A + P canon.

Didn't you just say something about me flipping burgers as if you understood my life? And yet other people talking about your SoCal yuppie stock photo life is off limits? Your daughter probably spends more on her phony hairspray haircut than you make in a year at this point and you're trying to act tough to me? Are you that desperate at this point?

But seriously we know your wife hates you. Or else she'd still be at home.

Will be deleted but QFT.

Not to mention his delusions that she’s been faithful.

Arizonan liberals are probably campaigning to get her pussy declared a sanctuary for illegals.

de·lu·sion·al
dəˈlo͞oZH(ə)nəl/Submit
adjective
characterized by or holding idiosyncratic beliefs or impressions that are contradicted by reality or rational argument, typically as a symptom of mental disorder.
"hospitalization for schizophrenia and delusional paranoia"
based on or having faulty judgment; mistaken.
"their delusional belief in the project's merits never wavers"

pa·thet·ic
pəˈTHedik/Submit
adjective
1.
arousing pity, especially through vulnerability or sadness.
"she looked so pathetic that I bent down to comfort her"
synonyms: pitiful, pitiable, piteous, moving, touching, poignant, plaintive, distressing, upsetting, heartbreaking, heart-rending, harrowing, wretched, forlorn
"a pathetic groan"

un·in·tel·li·gent
ˌənənˈteləjənt/Submit
adjective
having or showing a low level of intelligence.
"a good-natured but unintelligent boy"
synonyms: stupid, ignorant, dense, brainless, mindless, slow, dull-witted, feebleminded, simpleminded, vacuous, obtuse, vapid, irrational, idiotic; More

un·nec·es·sar·y
ˌənˈnesəˌserē/Submit
adjective
1.
not needed.
"a fourth Chicago airport is unnecessary"

an·noy·ing
əˈnoiiNG/Submit
adjective
causing irritation or annoyance.
"annoying habits"
synonyms: irritating, infuriating, exasperating, maddening, trying, tiresome, troublesome, bothersome, nettlesome, obnoxious, irksome, vexing, cursed, vexatious, galling; More

hyp·o·crit·i·cal
ˌhipəˈkridək(ə)l/Submit
adjective
behaving in a way that suggests one has higher standards or more noble beliefs than is the case.
"we don't go to church and we thought it would be hypocritical to have him christened"

ob·nox·ious
əbˈnäkSHəs/Submit
adjective
extremely unpleasant.
synonyms: unpleasant, disagreeable, nasty, distasteful, offensive, objectionable, unsavory, unpalatable, off-putting, awful, terrible, dreadful, frightful, revolting, repulsive, repellent, repugnant, disgusting, odious, vile, foul, abhorrent, loathsome, nauseating, sickening, hateful, insufferable, intolerable, detestable, abominable, despicable, contemptible; More

If you want to define people by a single aspect of their life, then don't act shocked when we respond by telling you that every single aspect of your life that we're aware of is an absolute failure. Go watch a ****ing sitcom.

Damn.

I thought similar though. I have had one serious relationship which lasted about two years on and off, and when it ended I went through that phase of trying to convince myself it's not as upsetting as I think it is and that we're getting on fine when I really wasn't doing well or dealing with it well at all. I can see Chula doing it on here but I didn't say anything cos he's going through enough. I'm not being an arse.

Saw that post about meeting up in a hotel and just thought that is a horrible idea and nothing good will come of it. Keeping contact is bad enough. All you're gonna do is set your recovery back by months.

This is just my opinion though.

Linda and I were full time for almost 39 years. Big difference.

I'm being open and honest. Not "doing" anything.

We're both going to turn 58 years old this year and have known each other intimately since we were 19.

Listen folks, piss on me all you want. I'm easy pickings.

Leave the Linda insults out of it.

So it's a burger flipper versus the old guy who lives in a van by the river, while a crusty cynic watches and beats off. No matter who wins this fight, everybody loses.

Is this loss?