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Old 07-23-2010, 01:36 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Old 07-23-2010, 01:36 PM   #22 (permalink)
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That sucks if that's how it is.

But I dunno. Some of the best guys I know can't find a stable relationship with girls. And a lot of women (even you admit) have an inexplicable attraction to massive douchebags.

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Old 07-23-2010, 01:40 PM   #23 (permalink)
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I dunno. Some of the best guys I know can't find a stable relationship with girls. And a lot of women (even you admit) have an inexplicable attraction to massive douchebags.

lol yes

me especially
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Old 07-23-2010, 01:46 PM   #24 (permalink)
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lol yes

me especially
Why do you think that is?

This is just some women though. I tend to divide women into two groups, one of them is what I've just described.

But there's plenty of women who are much more particular about compatable types, which I think biologically is a natural behavioral trait for females of any species. It's natural male biology to want to f*ck everything that moves (though because of our evolution and social norms it's now very common for men to be very judgemental and choosy) while natural female biology is wanting to get the most desirable mate.

I think women with a douchebag attraction tend to be desperate for a partner or have some kind of serious emotional problem. And I know you have emotional problems, as someone who has had several of his own my word of advice is to persue relationships first instead of persuing sex. Which I admit is easier said than done.

But when you get to understand the opposite sex better just by hanging out with them and getting to know them, I think you will be rewarded in the end, both in terms of finding a good relationship as well as sexual satisfaction, which I think you would get more of from a guy that actually gets you.

Patience is key. Masturbating a lot in the meantime also helps.

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Old 07-23-2010, 02:04 PM   #25 (permalink)
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This is the only problem I have with homosexuality/homosexuals.
To be more accurate, some of them at best. Most of them at worst.
If straight men talked openly about sex as often and as crudely as some gay men and women do in public...straight men would be blasted for being laddish and reviled for being disgusting and uncooth in a heartbeat.
OK...I get it...you're gay.
But please, please, please don't ram the fact down my throat (so to speak).
I don't have a problem with your gayness, but for Christs sake, spare me the fucking details!
Oh I don't know I've heard some pretty crude talk from straight men in locker rooms, at bars, in school, etc. I think the worst story I ever heard was this guy was talking about his exploits into anal sex and how he and this girl were doing it on her parents brand new white leather sofa... and how she couldn't stop crapping after...

Anyhow I really have nothing against homosexuals except for the little resistance I hear from them about their inaccurate portrayal in the media. Growing up in the West End of Vancouver (large *** population) I was exposed to *** people at a young age. They were regular dudes, worked jobs, drank beer, talked about hockey, etc. Even the dude who got me my first set of hockey equipment was *** and he taught me how to stick handle the puck.

Back when I was 18 I lived with a *** couple and the only annoying thing about them was that they would drink my beer without asking. Nothing sucks more than coming home from a crappy day at work and seeing that last can of beer gone.
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I don't get this, a lot of straight men love going into great detail about their sexcapades and sharing them among friends. Why is that ok but when gay men do it they have to keep it to themselves?
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I don't get this, a lot of straight men love going into great detail about their sexcapades and sharing them among friends. Why is that ok but when gay men do it they have to keep it to themselves?
You don't get it because you failed to read my post in detail.
The emphasis was on 'some'.
The type of gay people I'm focusing on typically use their sexual persuasion to constantly bang on about their sexual exploits.
When they're not directly talking about it, they still manage to squeeze it into a normal conversation. And usually somebody else's at that.
It can be almost impossible to finish a sentence, without being interrupted by some panhead slipping in an innuendo every now and then.
They think they're being funny too. When they are in fact being incredibly tiresome, crude and extremely boring.
The people I'm talking about never seem to let up the opportunity to flaunt their gayness.
It leads me to believe that it's some kind of attention seeking device.
And I find that kind of behaviour obnoxious.

Equally, it isn't OK for straight men to do the same either...had you read my post properly.
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Old 07-23-2010, 02:44 PM   #28 (permalink)
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I feel apprehension entering a thread like this, because my opinions could be misconstrued as me being a 'gay basher' or whatever, but my opinion(s)..

My views: Eccentrics annoy the fuck out of me, and it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable when around two *** men being 'close'.

That said, I don't think there's anything wrong with it whatsoever. As long as people are happy.
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But I dunno. Some of the best guys I know can't find a stable relationship with girls. And a lot of women (even you admit) have an inexplicable attraction to massive douchebags.
That's usually the case in the short term but I remember reading a study that when a woman wants to settle down she won't wanna be stuck with that type.. for obvious reasons. But then again they will never wanna go for the overtly sensitive type. I think it's all about balance; a guy they can have a lot of fun with but can be serious and mature when the situation calls for it. Being the extreme on either end is no good
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