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Old 08-05-2010, 10:04 PM   #301 (permalink)
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I actually got romantically involved with a lesbian recently, or at least she has dated women exclusively for the past 10 years, and I came to the conclusion that I really didn't want to "turn her". Something about it just felt awkward to me.
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Old 08-05-2010, 10:08 PM   #302 (permalink)
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I actually got romantically involved with a lesbian recently, or at least she has dated women exclusively for the past 10 years, and I came to the conclusion that I really didn't want to "turn her". Something about it just felt awkward to me.
I think the idea of "turning" people is a little dated.
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Old 08-05-2010, 10:15 PM   #303 (permalink)
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I think the idea of "turning" people is a little dated.
Poor choice of words on my part.

I decided that I don't particularly want to have sex with her, because I truly believe that she is ***, and well... I dunno'.
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Old 08-05-2010, 10:23 PM   #304 (permalink)
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Poor choice of words on my part.

I decided that I don't particularly want to have sex with her, because I truly believe that she is ***, and well... I dunno'.
Well I'm not going to tell you that you shouldn't want to stop yourself from having sex with her, but I don't think if she has sex with you she's any less ***.

To me its a cultural thing, and I feel like if she were to have sex with a guy now and then, I don't think she stops being a lesbian.

What you'd come to in this debate is that preference likely isn't static. Its probably a spectrum. But no one ever says "that girls 60% lesbian."
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im not against it.. i have lesbian and bi sexual friends
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Old 08-05-2010, 10:43 PM   #306 (permalink)
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Old 08-05-2010, 10:45 PM   #307 (permalink)
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Old 08-05-2010, 11:00 PM   #308 (permalink)
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This is also a good thread. Definitely,
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Old 08-05-2010, 11:08 PM   #309 (permalink)
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Well I'm not going to tell you that you shouldn't want to stop yourself from having sex with her, but I don't think if she has sex with you she's any less ***.

To me its a cultural thing, and I feel like if she were to have sex with a guy now and then, I don't think she stops being a lesbian.

What you'd come to in this debate is that preference likely isn't static. Its probably a spectrum. But no one ever says "that girls 60% lesbian."
It's not that cut and dry of an issue. There is just something very awkward about the situation for me. It feels like having sex with her would just be... 'invasive' of me. No pun intended at all. I'm very attracted to her personality and we have a great rapport, but I don't think there's really a lot of sexual chemistry there (well that may be one-sided. I'm not feelin' the sexual chemistry). Suffice it to say, without divulging any details of her history, that life has given her ample reason to never be with another man.

Which brings up another facet of this whole debate...
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Which brings up another facet of this whole debate...
Which is?
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