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View Poll Results: How do you plead?
I'm a parent 11 17.74%
I'm a child-free woman/man 24 38.71%
I want to have kids someday (please explain) 18 29.03%
I'm undecided 9 14.52%
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Old 12-29-2013, 03:19 AM   #231 (permalink)
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I reckon most of the people who voted against having kids in the poll, will have kids.

Also ftr I hate kids for the most part as well, but I have always wanted a child one day. I can accept all the arguments against and agree with some of them but I think it's a natural thing to have a child and no amount of snotty faces is going to erase our base instincts.

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Old 12-29-2013, 04:33 AM   #232 (permalink)
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I like kids, but they can give me indigestion.
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Old 12-29-2013, 04:33 AM   #233 (permalink)
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Old 12-29-2013, 07:38 PM   #234 (permalink)
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I can accept all the arguments against and agree with some of them but I think it's a natural thing to have a child and no amount of snotty faces is going to erase our base instincts.
I don't think it's "natural" or unbeatable or unavoidable. I don't believe in the "biological clock". If someone believes any of that crap, they're just putting unnecessary thoughts in their own head.

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Old 12-29-2013, 08:15 PM   #235 (permalink)
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I don't have a child because they cost more money than I can budget for my future at this point in time. If people think that all the other stuff like annoying crying and all that is more important, they're either well-off or doomed. And if you can't afford a kid, you definitely can't afford your goals while having a kid. Doing that WHILE being annoyed by crying and other crap... well, guess what, you lost the good decision game.

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Old 12-30-2013, 01:32 AM   #236 (permalink)
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I don't think it's "natural" or unbeatable or unavoidable. I don't believe in the "biological clock". If someone believes any of that crap, they're just putting unnecessary thoughts in their own head.
OK, maybe that is the case, but as I said I reckon most ppl on here will reach their early 30's and then the penny will drop.

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I don't have a child because they cost more money than I can budget for my future at this point in time. If people think that all the other stuff like annoying crying and all that is more important, they're either well-off or doomed. And if you can't afford a kid, you definitely can't afford your goals while having a kid. Doing that WHILE being annoyed by crying and other crap... well, guess what, you lost the good decision game.

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My mate had a kid at 19, his gf was 16. I don't get how people can do that. And then how everyone congratulates them .

Can say what you like but if you have a child at that age, you are stupid.
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Old 12-30-2013, 04:20 AM   #237 (permalink)
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Sounds like a stupid decision. I mean, if you never experience your youth, that does not work.
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Old 12-30-2013, 04:31 AM   #238 (permalink)
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Why do all new-born babies look like Phil Collins? Think of that next time you meet one.
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Old 12-30-2013, 04:54 AM   #239 (permalink)
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My mate had a kid at 19, his gf was 16. I don't get how people can do that. And then how everyone congratulates them .

Can say what you like but if you have a child at that age, you are stupid.
why not congratulate them? Yes it may be have been a stupid decision so early in their life but they don't need to hear negativity. They are about to start up the difficult process of being a young parents.
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OK, maybe that is the case, but as I said I reckon most ppl on here will reach their early 30's and then the penny will drop.
I reckon you're right. Two of my friends were adamant about not having kids when we were in our 20s. One of them now has a three year old and the other is pregnant.
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