Stuff that sucks about being the gender you identify as

Black Francis · 05-07-2014, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by WhateverDude

Not that I'd ever get hitched and have kids, at least not any time soon, but even as a guy this is pretty insulting dude. Men can be nurturing too. And there are plenty of women who aren't nurturing at all. It's pretty ****ed to expect someone to fulfill a role because of their gender.

ideally i agree with you, realistically i don't.

i have a daughter who i love and nurture but i can never replace the maternal nurture she gets from her mother.

The sensibility is simply not the same.

Im not trying to put women in their place saying they have to be loving house wifes that is their choice.
im just trying to point out that a man can't quite be as nurturing as women in most cases.

It's a generalisation and ofc there are exceptions, but i see way more single mothers raising a kid than i see single fathers raising one.

It's not "Mama was a rolling stone" it's "papa was a rolling stone"

(either way no need to get butthurt it's just my opinion)

GuD · 05-07-2014, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Francis

ideally i agree with you, realistically i don't.

i have a daughter who i love and nurture but i can never replace the maternal nurture she gets from her mother.

The sensibility is simply not the same.

Im not trying to put women in their place saying they have to be loving house wifes that is their choice.
im just trying to point out that a man can't quite be as nurturing as women in most cases.

It's a generalisation and ofc there are exceptions, but i see way more single mothers raising a kid than i see single fathers raising one.

It's not "Mama was a rolling stone" it's "papa was a rolling stone"

(either way no need to get butthurt it's just my opinion)

I'm not sure how you define 'maternal nurturing' but it seems like a pretty vague projection and not something based on any actual science or fact. Same goes for a "Woman's touch". This is also all coming from someone who doesn't know his father so yeah, kinda take it personally because it damn sure would've been nice having someone else around once in a while.

djchameleon · 05-07-2014, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Francis

ideally i agree with you, realistically i don't.

i have a daughter who i love and nurture but i can never replace the maternal nurture she gets from her mother.

The sensibility is simply not the same.

Im not trying to put women in their place saying they have to be loving house wifes that is their choice.
im just trying to point out that a man can't quite be as nurturing as women in most cases.

It's a generalisation and ofc there are exceptions, but i see way more single mothers raising a kid than i see single fathers raising one.

It's not "Mama was a rolling stone" it's "papa was a rolling stone"

(either way no need to get butthurt it's just my opinion)

Just because a single mother is raising a kid doesn't mean she is more nurturing or even a good parent.

**Goofle** · 05-06-2014, 11:30 AM

Not at all. I'm completely happy so it's not a "grass is greener" situation. I'm only talking about people living in similar circumstances to mine though, I'm obviously aware that being a woman in certain parts of the world is anything but an advantage.

**Goofle** · 05-07-2014, 01:25 PM

Agree with the above.

Paul Smeenus · 05-07-2014, 02:16 PM

I think women (and men) have it easier in some ways and more difficult in others

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 05-07-2014, 03:47 PM

Women n men are different. Men are better at something n women are better at some things. Get over it and accept reality. Thats to everyone

Ummm well girls dont gotta worry about gettin a half chub during a long dump n it danglin near the poo water

FRED HALE SR. · 05-07-2014, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by butthead aka 216

Women n men are different. Men are better at something n women are better at some things. Get over it and accept reality. Thats to everyone

Ummm well girls dont gotta worry about gettin a half chub during a long dump n it danglin near the poo water

I hate when that happens.

Tristesse · 05-07-2014, 04:12 PM

I hate when I go to try and buy underwear and they haven't got pants big enough to contain little Tris.

FRED HALE SR. · 05-07-2014, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Tristesse

I hate when I go to try and buy underwear and they haven't got pants big enough to contain little Tris.

The adult section is right over there sir.

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