Back and Miserable (rock, member, Inci)

Tommyrocker · 02-26-2006, 02:16 PM

sorry i dissapeared again, my grandad died and as you can imagine my heart just seemed to fall to pieces. so sorry if im rude to anyone in any threads but as much as i'd like to forget it and think its not on my mind every minute of the day it is because i loved that man. so have some patience with me.

Incidentally, yes, he was a brilliant man.

explosions-in-my-pants · 02-26-2006, 02:36 PM

i don't have a clue who you are. but welcome back :o)

and i'm sorry you had to go through that.. its never good to lose a family member, let alone one you adore.. I'm sure your friends here will do there best to help you get past this..

riseagainstrocks · 02-26-2006, 02:49 PM

TOMMYROCKER!

sucks about you're grandfather, i've never had a close relative die. but on another note, I'm glad to see you back!

adidasss · 02-26-2006, 02:54 PM

sorry about your grandfather. no need to worry about being a dickhead, you always were one and we wouldn't have it any other way...

TrampInaTux · 02-27-2006, 04:01 AM

Yeah welcome back and sorry about your Grandad...

dog · 02-27-2006, 04:18 AM

heh yea i remember tommyrocker. good lad. both my grandpas are dead. never knew them.

TrampInaTux · 02-27-2006, 04:22 AM

At least you got to know him, some people live without ever knowing their Grandparents. Maybe you can turn his Death into something positive. I know it sounds awful, but now your Grandad can be a target for you, someone to look upto in his absense.

dog · 02-27-2006, 04:25 AM

some people would say that not knowing them is a good thing, so you dont get so depressed over it.

TrampInaTux · 02-27-2006, 04:30 AM

That's true in some respects but also very wrong. I am obviously still depressed over my Dad dying, but then I know some people who don't know their Dad or don't like them, and while it will be easier for them to come to terms with their Dad's deaths, they will also have a big chunk of them missing where that Fatherly love should have been. I would rather have known him to his last breath than not known him at all.

~~[MERIT]~~ · 02-27-2006, 07:08 AM

welcome back buddy. sorry to hear about your grandfather

its good to have you back though.

02-26-2006, 02:49 PM	#3 (permalink)
riseagainstrocks Music Addict Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: DC Posts: 3,320	TOMMYROCKER! sucks about you're grandfather, i've never had a close relative die. but on another note, I'm glad to see you back! __________________ One note timeless, came out of nowhere...

02-26-2006, 02:54 PM	#4 (permalink)
adidasss Slavic gay sauce Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Abu Dhabi Posts: 7,993	sorry about your grandfather. no need to worry about being a dickhead, you always were one and we wouldn't have it any other way... __________________ “Think of what a paradise this world would be if men were kind and wise.” - Kurt Vonnegut, Cat's Cradle. Last.fm

02-27-2006, 04:18 AM	#6 (permalink)
dog this bird has flown Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: paris,texas Posts: 860	heh yea i remember tommyrocker. good lad. both my grandpas are dead. never knew them. __________________ formerly ledzeppelinrulz. http://theraffinkids.bandcamp.com/ music^

02-27-2006, 04:25 AM	#8 (permalink)
dog this bird has flown Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: paris,texas Posts: 860	some people would say that not knowing them is a good thing, so you dont get so depressed over it. __________________ formerly ledzeppelinrulz. http://theraffinkids.bandcamp.com/ music^

02-26-2006, 02:36 PM	#2 (permalink)
explosions-in-my-pants angel of tragic days Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 924	i don't have a clue who you are. but welcome back :o) and i'm sorry you had to go through that.. its never good to lose a family member, let alone one you adore.. I'm sure your friends here will do there best to help you get past this..

02-27-2006, 04:01 AM	#5 (permalink)
TrampInaTux that's my war face. Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,418	Yeah welcome back and sorry about your Grandad...

02-27-2006, 04:22 AM	#7 (permalink)
TrampInaTux that's my war face. Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,418	At least you got to know him, some people live without ever knowing their Grandparents. Maybe you can turn his Death into something positive. I know it sounds awful, but now your Grandad can be a target for you, someone to look upto in his absense.

02-27-2006, 04:30 AM	#9 (permalink)
TrampInaTux that's my war face. Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,418	That's true in some respects but also very wrong. I am obviously still depressed over my Dad dying, but then I know some people who don't know their Dad or don't like them, and while it will be easier for them to come to terms with their Dad's deaths, they will also have a big chunk of them missing where that Fatherly love should have been. I would rather have known him to his last breath than not known him at all.

02-27-2006, 07:08 AM	#10 (permalink)
~~[MERIT]~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Missouri, USA Posts: 4,814	welcome back buddy. sorry to hear about your grandfather its good to have you back though.