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^ Troof.. seeing as your boyfriend was there you shoulve felt safe neways.. rmeber it the same place in the light

Only time gets rid of darkness fear. Just work it so that the light is dimmer/further away each night until you can manage without synthetic lights when going to sleep.

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Originally Posted by right-track

You have an irrational fear of the dark, which stems back to your childhood.
Nothing happened to you as a child and nothing will happen to you as a young woman.

Relax.

get this.. my aunt and her hubby show up the other morning.. and they knocked on the door and my window is in the front but my bed is right under the window so in order to see who was there I had to look out.. only I couldn't get myself to move.. its like my body wouldn't let me... and so I stayed there the hole time until they left.

and also I can't go to sleep until it starts to get light outside.. strange I know.. but my walls are really dark and all my dressers.. tv stands whatever is all balck.. and all on one wall.. so it looks like one big black hole at night.

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Originally Posted by the death of capitilism

^ Troof.. seeing as your boyfriend was there you shoulve felt safe neways.. rmeber it the same place in the light

thing is yes it used to help me when someone was in the room with me when I was a kid.. but when he also jumps up screaming (even if its cause I screaed him) he jumped away from me not in front of me.. so that made me fear even more.. cause now if someones in the room with me they wouldn't save me.. FUCK! see everything just adds to it.

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Originally Posted by Fal

Only time gets rid of darkness fear. Just work it so that the light is dimmer/further away each night until you can manage without synthetic lights when going to sleep.

yea the first night he left I slepted with the closet light on.. now I have a small lamp put in there.. just enough light to let me see if anythings in there..
eek I seem so crazy don't I?

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants

I seem so crazy don't I?

Fear of the dark is one of the most common phobias, it's not biggy.

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Originally Posted by Fal

Fear of the dark is one of the most common phobias, it's not biggy.

even when ther's people in the house?
its crazy I go around to all the windows and doors about 3 or 4 times everynight to make sure i dind't forgot to lock any.. I just keep doing it... I'll lock my door then sit on my bed then go back to my door open it and then look around the basment and then come back to my room and do it over and over again..
when I go to the bathroom I always look in the shower/bath area.. why I don't know.. always scared something will pot out at me? I always look behide me when I'm in the shower.. at the drain.. again its a fear of something.. I don't know what agian..

Help me out MusicBanter family. My posts keep getting deleted and then un-deleted, i'm developing a complex. Help.

um right so neways..i don't liek getting teh help, but i think i may have social retardation.. i get uncomfotable talking to anyone.. store clerks, i hate calling people, i hate asking things.

Nah that may just be bi-polarness...

Press the shutudown button on your computer and go outside.

i do, and im not bi polar