Friendships (alternative, rock, track, quote, Hang)

tdoc210 · 01-10-2007, 05:21 PM

i have 2 friends, id consider close, and about 5 people i can manage to talk to otherwise in school, i dont talk, teachers thought i had soem depression disorder, they wanted me to go on some sortof drug, i wa sliek know, ever hear dof soemthing called different personalities.

Sparky · 01-10-2007, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by adidasss

I love getting to know new people, it's just that I get bored with them pretty quickly. The getting to know them part is the most interesting part of the relationship really, after that it's all down hill....in most cases that is. And putting effort into relationships is really not my kind of thing, I want everything to come easy and naturally or I'd rather not have it at all.

well...that sort of explains it...too have a relationship will be crap-me and one of my better friends get into a fight nearly every day, but do we drag it out no, and hour later we don't mention it anymore "what is there to say?".

Keeping friends will be a bitch sometimes, especially if a friend you known for a long time grows up to be someone rather different, but look past that crap.

i dont see, at least from expireance it going "downhill", i can generally tell what a person will be like from the first time i meet them..

tdoc210 · 01-10-2007, 05:23 PM

i dont have a family
besides my mom
my mom and dad split when iw as 10, complex ****... but, yeah no one calls me from either my mom or my dads side, when i got to my dads i go upstairs, the whole other family buisness is jsut weird. I dont really like people, they piss me off with their plastic idelas, and brainless and uinformed views, carrying on if the end of the world would come if they liek omg be not bought a new sports car

adidasss · 01-10-2007, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Kurt_Cobain

I used to have a large group pf friends, but when I lost my best mate they 99% turned their back on me. So it's just me and the guys which consists of 5 guys and 2 girls, tis small and secure, i'm happy

And I have you guys of course lol

7 friends isn't a large group of people?! How on earth do you manage?! I barely manage this one girl, even that is a total inconvenience most of the time.

Sparky · 01-10-2007, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Mamagarmr

i dont have a family
besides my mom
my mom and dad split when iw as 10, complex ****... but, yeah no one calls me from either my mom or my dads side, when i got to my dads i go upstairs, the whole other family buisness is jsut weird. I dont really like people, they piss me off with their plastic idelas, and brainless and uinformed views, carrying on if the end of the world would come if they liek omg be not bought a new sports car

get to know people...no body is as shallow as that..

except people on tv, but they dont really count

Kurt_Cobain · 01-10-2007, 05:27 PM

Like I said it's small and secure, and I have severe insecurity issues, so I get well loved, and taken care of. Thats just my main group, I have other friends but they're the ones I loves

tdoc210 · 01-10-2007, 05:28 PM

im uber uber uber really shy IRL.
i have issues, even with checkout line people, mm'k
i do have one friend that im uber seriousley thinking about asking out so i can have someone to be with, but its gonan take an uber amount of getting over the shyness to ask

Sparky · 01-10-2007, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Mamagarmr

im uber uber uber really shy IRL.
i have issues, even with checkout line people, mm'k
i do have one friend that im uber seriousley thinking about asking out so i can have someone to be with, but its gonan take an uber amount of getting over the shyness to ask

mabey if you didn't say uber every other word you'd have more friends..

adidasss · 01-10-2007, 05:30 PM

I've figured out that you know when you've got a really good friend is when you don't have to try very hard to keep the conversation flowing. When I get together with this girl it's a constant struggle to think of the next question to ask, I have to think when she's answering so I can avoid the much dreaded awkward silence. And I swear the phone conversations with her are the worst, the woman just stands there in total silence waiting for me to say something , and naturally, since my small talk skills are non-existent, I start sweating and it all just..isn't pleasurable at all!!

riseagainstrocks · 01-10-2007, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by adidasss

Why this need for social contact? Are human being really that pathetic that they need constant interaction so as not to feel alone and , I dunno, face their fears or summink? Silence is seriously under appreciated...

How many friends do you have? Is that enough, too little, do you care? How do you find maintaining those friendships, a strain or a pleasure?

I used to think that until I realized how pathetic the alternative was. I have alot of friends but only a few that I count as close. That's the way it should be imo. A friend is someone who will support you and take care of you and they know you'd do the same.

01-10-2007, 05:21 PM	#11 (permalink)
tdoc210 ashes against the grain Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: new hampsha Posts: 2,617	i have 2 friends, id consider close, and about 5 people i can manage to talk to otherwise in school, i dont talk, teachers thought i had soem depression disorder, they wanted me to go on some sortof drug, i wa sliek know, ever hear dof soemthing called different personalities. __________________ We went back there and they had come and hacked off every inoculated arm. There they were in a pile. A pile of little arms. And I remember... I... I... I cried. I wept like some grandmother. I wanted to tear my teeth out. I didn't know what I wanted to do. And I want to remember it. I never want to forget it. I never want to forget. And then I realized... like I was shot... like I was shot with a diamond... a diamond bullet right through my forehead. And I thought: My God... the genius of that.

01-10-2007, 05:23 PM	#13 (permalink)
tdoc210 ashes against the grain Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: new hampsha Posts: 2,617	i dont have a family besides my mom my mom and dad split when iw as 10, complex ****... but, yeah no one calls me from either my mom or my dads side, when i got to my dads i go upstairs, the whole other family buisness is jsut weird. I dont really like people, they piss me off with their plastic idelas, and brainless and uinformed views, carrying on if the end of the world would come if they liek omg be not bought a new sports car __________________ We went back there and they had come and hacked off every inoculated arm. There they were in a pile. A pile of little arms. And I remember... I... I... I cried. I wept like some grandmother. I wanted to tear my teeth out. I didn't know what I wanted to do. And I want to remember it. I never want to forget it. I never want to forget. And then I realized... like I was shot... like I was shot with a diamond... a diamond bullet right through my forehead. And I thought: My God... the genius of that.

01-10-2007, 05:27 PM	#16 (permalink)
Kurt_Cobain Alan Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: In bed, with Cheryl Tweedy Posts: 275	Like I said it's small and secure, and I have severe insecurity issues, so I get well loved, and taken care of. Thats just my main group, I have other friends but they're the ones I loves __________________ http://kungfucrazy.forum-motion.com/

01-10-2007, 05:28 PM	#17 (permalink)
tdoc210 ashes against the grain Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: new hampsha Posts: 2,617	im uber uber uber really shy IRL. i have issues, even with checkout line people, mm'k i do have one friend that im uber seriousley thinking about asking out so i can have someone to be with, but its gonan take an uber amount of getting over the shyness to ask __________________ We went back there and they had come and hacked off every inoculated arm. There they were in a pile. A pile of little arms. And I remember... I... I... I cried. I wept like some grandmother. I wanted to tear my teeth out. I didn't know what I wanted to do. And I want to remember it. I never want to forget it. I never want to forget. And then I realized... like I was shot... like I was shot with a diamond... a diamond bullet right through my forehead. And I thought: My God... the genius of that.

01-10-2007, 05:30 PM	#19 (permalink)
adidasss Slavic gay sauce Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Abu Dhabi Posts: 7,993	I've figured out that you know when you've got a really good friend is when you don't have to try very hard to keep the conversation flowing. When I get together with this girl it's a constant struggle to think of the next question to ask, I have to think when she's answering so I can avoid the much dreaded awkward silence. And I swear the phone conversations with her are the worst, the woman just stands there in total silence waiting for me to say something , and naturally, since my small talk skills are non-existent, I start sweating and it all just..isn't pleasurable at all!! __________________ “Think of what a paradise this world would be if men were kind and wise.” - Kurt Vonnegut, Cat's Cradle. Last.fm