The Bitch Box

bob. · 05-31-2014, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Francis

Don't make all men the bad guys here other women also think like this, while in your case the guy was wrong ppl should be held accountable for what they wear and should follow a formal dress code in some places.

As a man i can't think like a woman, i don't understand how some women wear skimpy revealing clothing and then expect not to be judged or harassed by it.
yet if i dress like a hobo im sure they would treat me like a hobo, but when it comes to what women should wear some girls think they have the freedom to wear barely anything without any consequences

And they shift the blame! they can choose to wear a tank top with no bra KNOWING everybody will notice their boobs but if i look at them IM THE PERV

I don't get how some women expect to look sexy without inducing sexual thoughts.
Ofc this doesn't apply to the average girl who likes to show a little leg or cleavage in a classy way.

~~hate paper doll~~ · 05-31-2014, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Junkyard Donner

I just can't with this forum.

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Originally Posted by Sansa Stark

seriously. ****ing disgusting

My intention wasn't to offend. Sorry!

WWWP · 05-31-2014, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by hate paper doll

My intention wasn't to offend. Sorry!

Are you serious? That was 100% not aimed at you.

Black Francis · 05-31-2014, 02:36 PM

Don't get me wrong, believe it or not i respect women for more than their body i just never got the double standard how women want to embrace sexuality in their looks but get offended if they bring a sexual attraction to them

For me it's a little hard to explain cause honestly im not opposed to skimpy clothing on a hot girl, why would i? i like eye candy but there is also sense of moderation.

I measure it by degree, like, if a girl wears a long skirt i take it she doesn't wanna show off her legs but a girl who wears super tight booty shorts she KNOWS are too short shouldn't be all offended if guys stare at her butt, i mean wasn't that the point of her wardrobe choice?

She was the one who chose to wear that so why am i the pervert for looking?
the thing is whenever i bring this up im made out to be a misogynistic sleazebag? why?

because i believe they should be held accountable for how they portray themselves?
i also believe Males should follow this rules so it's not just about women

Black Francis · 05-31-2014, 02:36 PM

Also, i didn't clarify, but i wasn't talking about your average girl that wears sexy clothes in a classy way, i was more referring to the girls that go out that intentionally wear really revealing outfits but don't want to be defined by them, i say, don't wear them then because we don't live in an ideal world where looks don't matter.

And it's not like only men judge women for how they dress, girls are the first ones that judge other women for how they dress and quickly label them as sluts.

They can openly say they dress like that for attention but if i say the same thing im a sleazebag? why?

That's the double standard i don't get, it seems only girls can criticise female behavior cause if i do it im looking down on them. if a girl broughts up all the bullsh*t in the male behavior i wouldn't be offended if its true.

Guys are usually stereotyped as horndogs by females when not all guys are like that, so it's not just men judging women they do it too.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 05-31-2014, 02:53 PM

bruh among other things ur post heteronormative as ****

not all women are into men

**Goofle** · 05-31-2014, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Black Francis

As a man i can't think like a woman, i don't understand how some women wear skimpy revealing clothing and then expect not to be judged or harassed by it.

~~hate paper doll~~ · 05-31-2014, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Junkyard Donner

Are you serious? That was 100% not aimed at you.

lol, just checking.

Black Francis · 05-31-2014, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Sansa Stark

bruh among other things ur post heteronormative as ****

not all women are into men

Yea i guess..
i can't really deny that i can only see life through my hetero male perspective.

But that doesn't mean i think women are inferior or that i will mistreat them or anything. i think both genders are full of sh*t i wouldn't say one does it more than the other because we do it in different ways.

i honestly don't even see what's so disgusting in what i said, maybe im not choosing my words correctly but in reality i luv women and see them as equals just experiencing life as a different gender.

that's why i don't pat them in the back for just being pretty and if i don't get their point of view i'll likely say something, but this doesn't mean i look down on them, it just means i won't blindly agree with them just to be in their good favors.

especially here in MB where im not looking to impress any female so i get to show more honesty.

Black Francis · 05-31-2014, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by hate paper doll

lol, just checking.

lol it was obviously directed at me JD doesn't like me

Vanilla also doesn't like it when i post that kinda comments although she seems more tolerant than JD on the issue.

Sansa i know hates me so that i expected

But honestly though im not trolling them or trying to offend them personally, when im criticising a certain female behavior im not picturing them or any good girl that doesn't fit the role im talking about the ones that do, the type of girls women themselves criticise for being just awful. im not trying to state ALL women are like that, just that some are.

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05-31-2014, 02:36 PM	#15624 (permalink)
Black Francis Out of Place Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: in an abstract house Posts: 4,111	Don't get me wrong, believe it or not i respect women for more than their body i just never got the double standard how women want to embrace sexuality in their looks but get offended if they bring a sexual attraction to them For me it's a little hard to explain cause honestly im not opposed to skimpy clothing on a hot girl, why would i? i like eye candy but there is also sense of moderation. I measure it by degree, like, if a girl wears a long skirt i take it she doesn't wanna show off her legs but a girl who wears super tight booty shorts she KNOWS are too short shouldn't be all offended if guys stare at her butt, i mean wasn't that the point of her wardrobe choice? She was the one who chose to wear that so why am i the pervert for looking? the thing is whenever i bring this up im made out to be a misogynistic sleazebag? why? because i believe they should be held accountable for how they portray themselves? i also believe Males should follow this rules so it's not just about women __________________ "Hey Kids you got to meet the MIGHTY PIXIES!" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbRbCtIgW3A

05-31-2014, 02:36 PM	#15625 (permalink)
Black Francis Out of Place Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: in an abstract house Posts: 4,111	Also, i didn't clarify, but i wasn't talking about your average girl that wears sexy clothes in a classy way, i was more referring to the girls that go out that intentionally wear really revealing outfits but don't want to be defined by them, i say, don't wear them then because we don't live in an ideal world where looks don't matter. And it's not like only men judge women for how they dress, girls are the first ones that judge other women for how they dress and quickly label them as sluts. They can openly say they dress like that for attention but if i say the same thing im a sleazebag? why? That's the double standard i don't get, it seems only girls can criticise female behavior cause if i do it im looking down on them. if a girl broughts up all the bullsht in the male behavior i wouldn't be offended if its true. Guys are usually stereotyped as horndogs by females when not all guys are like that, so it's not just men judging women they do it too. __________________ "Hey Kids you got to meet the MIGHTY PIXIES!"* http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbRbCtIgW3A

05-31-2014, 02:53 PM	#15626 (permalink)
~~Sansa Stark~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The Eyrie, Vale of Arryn, Westeros Posts: 3,234	bruh among other things ur post heteronormative as **** not all women are into men