The Sexual Experience Thread (fan, effect, members, quote, Lute)

savannah · 04-08-2009, 10:59 AM

i am just gonna throw this out there,....
both my mother and the guy that raised me work in a field dealing with sexual deviants
because of that i have a very strong grasp on what deviant sex actually is,....oddly enough i dont think its what most of society thinks it is

as long as everything is between to consenting adults,....everything goes you know? i feel like people worry to much about this sort of thing,....sex is fun people, explore it, enjoy it,.....you might just learn something about yourself

boo boo · 04-08-2009, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by savannah

i am just gonna throw this out there,....
both my mother and the guy that raised me work in a field dealing with sexual deviants
because of that i have a very strong grasp on what deviant sex actually is,....oddly enough i dont think its what most of society thinks it is

as long as everything is between to consenting adults,....everything goes you know? i feel like people worry to much about this sort of thing,....sex is fun people, explore it, enjoy it,.....you might just learn something about yourself

What are their names? Maybe I've met them.

savannah · 04-08-2009, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by boo boo

What are their names? Maybe I've met them.

trust me,....i hope not

boo boo · 04-08-2009, 11:16 AM

Lord knows what they would think of our pal Murder Junkie.

savannah · 04-08-2009, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by boo boo

Lord knows what they would think of our pal Murder Junkie.

ha,...i like ol junkie,....and i'm sure he'd be fine

LoathsomePete · 04-08-2009, 11:29 AM

Here's a question for the ladies. Lets say for sake of example the person you're with has extremely high stamina and can go on for over an hour. You finish before he finishes, but you can tell that he's getting tired, I mean over an hour of sex is truly an exhausting task even if you're in good shape. Anyways the question I pose is if he eventually stopped, long after you finished, would you consider it rude and wrong that she would refuse to help finish you off? I mean I like to consider sex as the exchange of orgasms, I give you an orgasm, you give me one. This happened to me with my last girlfriend and I'm not going to lie, it was one of the reasons for the break up.

~~The Unfan~~ · 04-08-2009, 11:33 AM

See, the problem is that you're viewing sex wrong. The way it works is I give them an orgasm, I give them an orgasm, and then I give them an orgasm, then I stick my penis in and flop about like a fish for about 5 minutes. Try doing it that way and your relationships will be much better.

savannah · 04-08-2009, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Pobodys_Nerfect

Here's a question for the ladies. Lets say for sake of example the person you're with has extremely high stamina and can go on for over an hour. You finish before he finishes, but you can tell that he's getting tired, I mean over an hour of sex is truly an exhausting task even if you're in good shape. Anyways the question I pose is if he eventually stopped, long after you finished, would you consider it rude and wrong that she would refuse to help finish you off? I mean I like to consider sex as the exchange of orgasms, I give you an orgasm, you give me one. This happened to me with my last girlfriend and I'm not going to lie, it was one of the reasons for the break up.

for the most part, yes, take care of each other,....
i would consider it rude not too,......
but when you say refuse what exactly do you mean? like,...she went to sleep,...or she flat out said no

if its the latter, and habitual i can see where thats a problem,.....though, honestly,...i've had moments myself where i just want to go to sleep

WWWP · 04-08-2009, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Pobodys_Nerfect

Here's a question for the ladies. Lets say for sake of example the person you're with has extremely high stamina and can go on for over an hour. You finish before he finishes, but you can tell that he's getting tired, I mean over an hour of sex is truly an exhausting task even if you're in good shape. Anyways the question I pose is if he eventually stopped, long after you finished, would you consider it rude and wrong that she would refuse to help finish you off? I mean I like to consider sex as the exchange of orgasms, I give you an orgasm, you give me one. This happened to me with my last girlfriend and I'm not going to lie, it was one of the reasons for the break up.

More times than not, sex becomes absolutely NO fun after girl comes, and having "stamina" isn't always a good thing. After about 15-20 minutes, the only thing going on in a girl's head is, "Jesus, when is he gonna finish?"

From a personal standpoint, if I orgasm first, the only thing I'm doing from that point forward is hoping he comes as soon as possible so that I don't have to keep putting on a show that I'm enjoying getting fucked when I'm already well past the enjoyment part and my body just wants a break.

However, I think that, like you said, it is pretty damn rude and selfish to not do everything you can to ensure that they guy orgasms as well.

LoathsomePete · 04-08-2009, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by savannah

for the most part, yes, take care of each other,....
i would consider it rude not too,......
but when you say refuse what exactly do you mean? like,...she went to sleep,...or she flat out said no

if its the latter, and habitual i can see where thats a problem,.....though, honestly,...i've had moments myself where i just want to go to sleep

Yeah she seriously went to sleep, it was like complete role reversal for the stereotypes of the man finishing in 5 minutes and rolling over to fall asleep. She may have been doing that to get out some frustration from a previous relationship, but I mean if you're going to be selfish like that, what does it say about how you'll act outside of the bedroom?

04-08-2009, 10:59 AM	#41 (permalink)
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04-08-2009, 11:33 AM	#47 (permalink)
~~The Unfan~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Methville Posts: 2,116	See, the problem is that you're viewing sex wrong. The way it works is I give them an orgasm, I give them an orgasm, and then I give them an orgasm, then I stick my penis in and flop about like a fish for about 5 minutes. Try doing it that way and your relationships will be much better.