That's the general approach I go for .. only I prefer to make her come first.

Well that's what usually happens, but if it doesn't then he will work his magic :D

Apparently it's rare to get a girl to an orgasm during sex. My partner usually finished before I do. 0_o

it usually takes a long time for me and my partners to reach orgasm

My record was three times in a row, but I'm unsure if it counts or not because I never finished the first time, we just got kind of exhausted, took a break and then decided to try again... and then again. She told me she finished twice and I was just left with blue balls and a really exhausted lower body that made work the next day almost impossible. I really wish I knew why I can't finish if I'm having sex or having fellatio performed on me, but I masturbate and be done in 5-minutes.

Happens to me sometimes too. She takes me out when she finishes, and I just finish myself, with her help.

anyway, what's with the sudden change, R?

i was under the impression you were "soft"

Life changes / brings people into different places. I took an opportunity, and it's served me pretty well.

Yes! I have the more often then not because my boyfriend can keep going so once I get to my first orgasm I get another and another and when we stop I sit there shaking and numb from pleasure. It can take me half an hour to recover.

I could rob most of your valuable electronics in half an hour. Hmm...