We haven't even heard the question yet now have we? Didn't everyone major in psychology? I have a BS in psychology, I even know what you're thinking right now. :dj:

I'm confused in your og comment you said:



so what does going down on her have to do w/ you wearing a condom?....and why is she sweating? what type of stinky sex are you having?



On topic-cheating can only occur if penetration happens

Right, so this'll probably end up being way longer than I intended it to be but whatever. Basically I've been "seeing" a guy a couple of years older than me for the past three weeks. I met him through a couple of friends, he's like a 9/10 and I never managed to get a rebound in from my last relationship so yeah, I got involved with him on a purely physical level. The thing that's annoying me right now is that when this all started I said to him that I'd rather keep it all under the radar and I still want to now, but as of tonight he's basically announced that we're a thing (which we aren't) to the wide world via Facebook. I need to decide whether to call him out as a lying tosser and drop him for doing it or just clear up the actual nature of it all to him and everyone else and carry on. Him doing that in the first place makes it very clear to me that he's pretty irresponsible and doesn't really give a damn about me as anything more than a trophy but if I have no interest whatsoever in an actual relationship with him or anyone else and will end it all anyway in a couple of months is there much harm in me carrying it on for a while?

Also don't worry about me getting attached to him because that happening just isn't in my nature. And yeah, I know this is very cold but I'll probably be doing it with way more people in Uni soon so I may as well embrace YOLO philosophy earlier.

He's older and you already told him this was strictly a sexual thing and yet he's making it appear as though it isn't, end it immediately.You don't have to make it a public thing via FB, b/c that's bad karma, but any male who behaves that way older or not is not a man and the headache isn't needed if all you want is sex. And it doesn't sound cold b/c you were honest form the start that you want a rebound r/ship so **** it.


Any other advice on this matter besides "end it" should be considered as trash and pathetic.

Why not just ask him to remove the status because you don't want your personal **** broadcast publicly? That way you don't have to call him names but your position on the matter will be clear. What's the worst that could happen? He'll either comply or **** off. If the latter happens, I'm sure you could find a different 9/10 to occupy yourself for a few months.

If you only want to shag him then do it.

Other than ignoring him, talk to him?

To be honest if it was me I'd just ignore them.

Good luck anyway :)

Same
best to just be honest

That statement isn't true for everyone, though. Every couple has different opinions on what is considered cheating.

Yo for real? I think the number of affairs I've just had went way the **** up then


oops

lmao

Alright, taking in everyone's advice I've decided I'm just going to end it now. I'm sure I'll be more than capable of living a few more months celibate.