A Hitatchi will solve all your problems IMO, I don't even need to get with **** boys anymore since I got one.

And if you can't there's always the Hitachi.

:bonkhead: wow wow wow, I'm don't condone being celibate. Unless you have a disease there's no need to be celibate, just move on and always use a condom.


Once again burning, I already know that, but thanks....and what is your definition of cheating.... b/c mine is pretty accurate in terms of how guys think

I was celibate for a year once, it wasn't so bad. I also was sober for that full year
THen I broke both in like a whole day span with my ex fuq buddy Koira. This is why I don't make friends with men.
So Circe, I hope you don't have any male friends because you might have that happen to you

^lol, I was actually gonna suggest she sleep w/ a friend, but tbt unless you're drunk you should never sleep with a friend.

It just sounded like a generalized statement to me, that's all.

I don't know any guys who would be cool with their girlfriends or wives going around and doing everything with other men besides actual penetration. I would not be okay with that. A relationship to me is about commitment and trust (meaning, don't go making out with other people, etc) and if you can't commit, don't establish the relationship.

Seriously horrible idea, I've had so many male bffs that I've lost because I end up getting drunk and I'm a drunk cuddler so they always take it like I want to **** em even though I really don't, but I do because eh why not. Then they catch feelings and you're left with a ****boy you don't even like left on your hands.

That happens to me way too much, but now I only have women friends so it's cool if I get wasted and just pour my heart out to them, cause they don't try to sleep with me lolololol

Yikes, I guess I was wrong about me not cheating on my ex then. I had emotional affairs with at least three dudes while remaining faithful to him, but I got back with him the last time on false pretenses. I was actually in love with someone else, but I did get to throw that in his face so I feel pretty good about that. I was kind of a prick about it in general because I used to pretend I was ****ing the other dude I'm in love with rather than just break up with him. But I was really not in a great position either way.

No guy wants his girl stepping out on them, but I could forgive her getting oral from another guy but not her giving oral or getting ****ed, that's a pack your ****ing bags and get the **** out of my house deal breaker ****.

Nu-uh, baaad idea. I've been there before and it did not turn out well at all. And I think celibacy was a bad word because it implies I'm sticking to some holy rule or something. If an opportunity for a quick fling arises I am taking it, I assure you all.

Jesus now I feel bad for being a cheating whore, lord, I don't even know how many affairs I've had then. I would rather deal with a guy who's ****ed someone else. I don't take sex personally but emotions are a different thing.