Anniversary? Peh, bull**** rituals couples force unto themselves to ignore the fact that all the time between these contrived sharts were laced in disatisfaction and misery. Make everyday a commemoration of love or none at all.

I'm going to take a nap, I stayed up till' 5 last night. Christ. . .

Word to the motherfucking up

My chili never got stirred....

My chili tastes like shit.

I didn't mean celebrate, as in go out and celebrate that one day... I meant acknowledge that you're been together for that long. Like... how do you measure relationships if you weren't together for the whole time?

By the times you were together, how much do they mean to you?

You measure by the fact that you're together at that moment, regardless of the past troubles or separations.
Some people use an occasion to mark that measurement, and some simply communicate their appreciation of it when it's most needed.

There's no need to rely on a formula. As far as you're concerned, you let the person know you're appreciative of the fact that your relationship is what it is at this moment and you don't really need to meet a criteria to observe it.

If you're getting hung up on precise quantification of how long, in days, you've been in a relationship... you're really focusing on the wrong thing.

i will have to stir at a later date due to a saturday night ritual and a grilled cheese sandwhich, but rest assured stirrin will convene soon

lol i laughed a lot reading this. Hoorah for chili.

i'm gonna need some chili stirin of my own,....


who of my very dearest friends are breaking up,....

krista is very,...earth mother ish,...

jake,...jake references the strokes in everything and wears skinny jeans

i adore them both,....but in the past few days their break up has turned very very very ugly,...they live together which just complicates it more,....and they both are useing me to vent,...

they arent askin me to take sides,....but its just, alot for me to take
i have my own things i'm dealing with and while i dont mind 'being there' for them both, i just feel like i'm gettin alot of toxic things dumped on me
and i'm the type of person that processes peoples stuff for them, but all of this is just way to much for me right now

its almost like my parents are divorcing again