Correct.
Women think they hold the ace, but what they don't realize is a guy can play a damn mean hand with less.

You guys date weird women, then.

Just saying.

I for one am not one of these women. I think it's WEIRD if my boyfriend doesn't masturbate.

yeah, so do I, it's sorta super normal.

Since were on the sex topic here goes a question. How come each time I have sex with someone (and I dont mean anything from 1st to 3rd) afterwords I seem to find them less attractive and slightly more annoying? There not all one night stands, there all different. Does this make me a horrible person? Its one of those things I really have no control over, but am pretty embarrassed about. This is something that will not be leaving the forum, because I am pretty sure its not a good thing.

look man, i was just tryin to keep your bakery bill down

when i was in 6th year at school there was this weirdo boy who claimed he had never had a wank.
this is why he was considered a weirdo :laughing:, nah that wasnt it, but it was partially it.
i would find it pretty weird if my boyfriend (thats non-existent) didnt masturbate.

edit: 6th year being the last academic year possible in britain, for you americans, i dont know what year this would be to yous!

I think that might be a natural thing with a lot of people. I notice the same thing in some cases of my own.
Generally if I know a relationship won't be following the deed, I tend to not be looking for the good aspects of the girl, and I guess focusing on the negative aspects is a way to subconsciously feel better about a hit & run. Kind of a self-justification process that helps keep you at a distance because you don't intend on falling for that person.
Usually I don't get that way in a relationship though, so if you do that regardless of the situation, there might be another factor in play.

I have a question, do you celebrate a 3 year relationship anniversary if the relationship had random short breaks/ on again-off again situation?

Do you want to celebrate it?