What is my friend (guy) thinking after what happened that night?

rondevu · 11-30-2009, 12:15 AM

Hmm yea i do. But i only told 2 of my closest friends. I didn't wanna tell everyone i tried E because it's really out of my character to do that. I don't wanna look bad. 2 of my friends told me to stop thinking about it, but well, that's obviously not enough for me. I wanna know what he's thinking. =P

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 11-30-2009, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by rondevu

Hmm yea i do. But i only told 2 of my closest friends. I didn't wanna tell everyone i tried E because it's really out of my character to do that. I don't wanna look bad. 2 of my friends told me to stop thinking about it, but well, that's obviously not enough for me. I wanna know what he's thinking. =P

I've been too full on back in my hey day, and trust me, once you scare them off, that's it. Also I've done E and the effect only lasted for 6 hours. The after affects can be very emotional which will be why you were so wrapped up in him.

Dr_Rez · 11-30-2009, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by rondevu

Let me start with a little bit of background. I knew him not that long ago (march 2009). We talked and hanged out occasionally. We got close enough to the point that when he did drugs (like E), he'd tell me. Out of curiosity, I tried E with him one day. But he was drunk and didn't take it. Only I did. He told me he'd take care of me and told me not to worry. He told me about how I would feel and what I'd do on E (like I'd be really talkative and become touchy which I did).

However, I totally didn't expect to get really sexual. And I started kissing and hugging him. I was feeling really sexual that I started to touch him and asked him if he wanted to do it. But I was also resisting myself from doing it because I knew it was because of E. We didn't have condoms and in the end, we didn't do it. We almost did though. Oh, and I was really in love with him. Although I have to say I don't even like him more than friend normally. I'm not attracted to him at all. But on E, he was the only one there, and I guess I gave lots of love to the only person available which was him.

After the night, I kept texting, calling him for another 15 hours saying how much I love him and want to be with him. I guess he kinda freaked out.

After 2 days, E was totally out of my system. And I texted him saying that I was sorry about what happened and I didn't mean what I said. It was the effects of E and won't happen again. He didn't text me back. I went on AIM and talked to him and he wouldn't respond. From that day, we never talked again, and I don't quite understand why.

I know I might have freaked him out during E and after because I was totally in love with the guy. But now I'm all normal (and he can tell I'm normal from my FB) he'd ignore me. I want to know what he's thinking, and what I should do to fix this friendship, if it's still fixable.

Thanks!

ps. about E. I won't try it again so don't worry about that.
ps.2 I was only in love with him coz of E

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Urban Hat€monger ? · 11-30-2009, 11:35 AM

If he doesn't want you I might.
Not if you're one of those psycho chicks though.

abdullah424 · 11-30-2009, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Urban Hatemonger

If he doesn't want you I might.
Not if you're one of those psycho chicks though.

In my experience every girl has a psycho side to them, even my wife. I think the best advice I ever recieved was that when you get married you basically get a new job, you're an emotional manager. I've honestly even considered putting that on my resume.

Kickin' · 11-30-2009, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by 6underground

You probably shouldn't put too much stock into Facebook statuses.

But I hope things work out for you.

Totally agree - Sometimes I'll put some lyrics up or something and a friend will come to me and ask me whats going on with my life or whats wrong? Maybe I just like the lyrics? Could be a possibility? lol

FETCHER. · 11-30-2009, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Urban Hatemonger

If he doesn't want you I might.
Not if you're one of those psycho chicks though.

She doesn't seem like the phycho kind. Just fiesty.

sidewinder · 11-30-2009, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by rondevu

He gave me 2 pills and it was my first time....

Yikes, no wonder. Don't ever take two of anything your first time. Except Advil and such.

~~Farfisa~~ · 12-02-2009, 08:40 AM

All chicks are psycho, 'tis a well known fact.

Schizotypic · 12-02-2009, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by rondevu

Oh and also E did last that long for me (it was actually about 24 hours). He gave me 2 pills and it was my first time....

Shut the fuck up. Your putting shit in your body you don't even know anything about.

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11-30-2009, 12:15 AM	#21 (permalink)
rondevu Groupie Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: somewhere in the crowd Posts: 0	Hmm yea i do. But i only told 2 of my closest friends. I didn't wanna tell everyone i tried E because it's really out of my character to do that. I don't wanna look bad. 2 of my friends told me to stop thinking about it, but well, that's obviously not enough for me. I wanna know what he's thinking. =P

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~~Farfisa~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,773	All chicks are psycho, 'tis a well known fact.