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love isaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa battlefieeeeeeeeeeeld
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Love was invented by men like me to sell nylons.
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If people never move beyond being "in love" and aren't prepared for the ho-hum feeling of long-term relationship love, then they may get disenchanted and start expecting (and looking for) the thrill of "falling in love" again. The way to inspire a little of the "in love" feeling again in a long-term relationship is to do new activities together...set up the situation so you have a chance to learn and appreciate something new about each other again. About your feeling of love being a mystery...I don't feel it is a mystery. Take any two people, throw them together for a while, assume they are pretty decent to each other, and unless they plan to kill each other they will probably end up feeling love. Biological benefit: cohabitating humans who get along, forage together, share food, pay electricty bills, and protect their common territory have better chances of surviving to pass on the ability to "love" others to offspring. Exactly *whom* (among all the strangers in the world) one "falls in love" with is more mysterious, I feel! I've been in quite a few relationships, but only two started with a feeling of being "in love." Looking back, I think what triggered the "in love" feeling that eventually developed was that I thought those people were especially physically attractive...I admired them *a lot* physically as well as personality-wise. Feeling "in love" with someone isn't a prerequisite for forming a loving, long-term relationship...although the feeling of "being in love" is nice to have, when it happens! Quote:
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love, loev, lvoe, lveo, levo, leov, olve, olev, ovle, ovel, oevl, oelv, vole, voel, vloe, vleo, velo, veol, eovl, eolv, evol, evlo, elvo, elov. My vote for the most fucked-up permutation of those four letters of the English language is "evol." |
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My only advice to you is, don't get too close with someone who's broken up from a longterm relationship and misses their ex. I nearly got into that situation, but very cautiously kept out of it.
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"Mer, mer, my boyfriend left me after two years of dating, mer, mer,mer."
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Don't be friends with them. They tend to act like highschool girls trying to make their ex jealous, or to just draw his attention. Pathetic phase. |
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I put up with many things when I was new to relationships that I would never put up with now. For example, I hate saliva and a boyfriend knew that, but once during kissing he spit into my mouth. I was upset because I knew he did it maliciously. Eventually we became engaged and were together for 2 years before we broke it off. I could have saved myself a lot of future sadness if I'd gone with my gut feeling that "if someone spits in your mouth, knowing you won't like it, get the hell outa there." Sadly, sometimes the way one learns lessons like this is by experiencing them. |
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Tbf I think I was on too many drugs to know if I actually liked this dude or not. He was WAY overbearing, and I rarely remember him calling me "Dayna", it was always "baby" this or "baby that" Edit: I am way too high, I just noticed I said titties unironically |
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I have a question for anyone good at decoding song lyrics or soppy poems that people choose to express themselves in. This is kinda lame, but a guy who I know quite well (we are not involved nor have we ever been involved) posted these song lyrics to me online today:
.......I'd be the luckiest man in the universe, if cause and effect didn't get there first, but she (she being you kate) keeps looking for patterns, and the world just happens..... He added in the "she being you kate" part (my name is Kate.) What does this even mean?! I want to know! |
Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes...just be an illusion.
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It's a weird one. If he reads something into those lyrics, and thinks theres a solid message in there then it's way over my head. I think it would maybe make a little more sense if you had a boyfriend, but you're single now arent you? So i cant even see it that way.
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I feel as if it means:
I think we should be together, but everything that happens is keeping us apart. I'm obviously taking it in a more dramatic way, but that's how I read it. "I'd be so lucky if things happened differently. Causes and effects aren't always the way you want them to be. She looks for patterns, something regular, repetitive, but the world doesn't always turn out that way." Maybe I'm reading into it too much, but that's what I got. I could write more, but let me know if this makes sense/seems to be going in the write direction. |
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I looked up the lyrics from this song, "Deja Vu," by Something for Kate, which helped me come to my conclusion about what he's saying. Here are the full lyrics: Quote:
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Yeah, exactly.
Right before that line, it's basically saying that she wants to meet the one for her but she wants to kind of "go with the flow." |
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"She wants to meet her fate, but travel by free will. But you can't have both and you can't stand still, still, still." |
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there really is no questioning of it. it takes enough faith and mutual respect. my girlfriend and I are 7 months since we started dating, and no argument has been involved. trust them as they trust you, or there's no strength. remember, statistics and all the other bs cannot tell you anything, real proof is necessary, with all the "self-help books" and "guides" out there. your faith and willingness to change to further everyone's ends.
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Wow, VEGANGELICA and AwwSugar, thanks! :) I was thinking along the same lines, and took the first part of it as rather suggestive. But I'm too afraid to approach him about it because it would be really embarrassing if I got it wrong and he was just randomly posting lyrics to me...
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But I can see why that would still be a bit embarrassing, I'm the same way. Say something like, "So I listened to the song." And see what he says back. |
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i had dreams once |
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I've only just begun to fully understand love. I feel like I'm late to the game sometimes.
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I just think it's funny that I wrote that huge ass paragraph when I didn't even love that ****.
I went back into our relationship being in love with someone else lmao whoops |
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nope, that's 100% me trying to convince myself I made the right choice
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Also, wtf is "night is a wire?" |
why is the word do in there 15 times? We get it. you did something.
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Sent you a track on Spotify.
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