should I stay or should I go? (Queen, quote, artist)

jesus · 03-12-2005, 08:57 AM

there's been a lot of questioning people's sanity on these boards lately.
Is is not childish to marry on a forum site? and who the **** cares! What's wrong with being 'childish' sometimes? Personally, I think you should've looked somewhere else for help with these problems besides musicbanter, but I guess if it makes you feel better, I wouldn't leave, see how it goes. Like fenix said, most of the cons you've listed can probably be solved anyway. I think if you really wanted to leave him you wouldn't have made this thread. If something really goes wrong then you'll probably be able to figure out what to do then. I suck with advice, so if this was no help then sorry.

Sneer · 03-12-2005, 09:09 AM

i am seriously confused by this thread. may steer clear of this.

Anarchy doll · 03-12-2005, 10:04 AM

well, thanks, I checked in and the polls are at 50/50 right now....
and Jesus! Yes I may be childish online, but never in real life, I am a mommy, that is as far as my childishness goes!
and this is just a poll designed for research purposes and i will do what I feel is right, I just wanted some valid points made to give me something to consider that I might have missed.....

jesus · 03-12-2005, 11:12 AM

if you're never childish in real life, then loosen up. you only live once.

ArtistInTheAmbulance · 03-12-2005, 01:34 PM

^Best advice we've had on here I think...

Anarchy doll · 03-12-2005, 06:38 PM

what would you all know about loosening up? Really? Do you all have kids and raise them properly? Do you all have exes to deal with with children that are theirs too? Do you struggle everyday with drug addiction? and still manage to stay clean?
and then do your kids tell you that you are sooo much fun and that they love you,? still able to keep a relationship going? and attend the bar and punk concerts to have the time of your life all in one night?and wake up the next day and manage with all your responsibilities? K well, that is how I live.....I loosen up you say? With the REAL pressures of life, I think I do pretty well thank you.... plz don't take that outta context....am simply defending myself against all those who think I am just bitchin' for no reason.....

ArtistInTheAmbulance · 03-13-2005, 02:15 AM

I havent seen anyone on here who thinks you are bitching for no reason. Dont over-react, you asked us for advice and that was good advice.

Thats all.

Anarchy doll · 03-13-2005, 07:33 PM

i didn't mean you.....I mean those people....LOL!

jesus · 03-13-2005, 08:16 PM

*ahem*
I havent seen anyone on here who thinks you are bitching for no reason. Dont over-react, you asked us for advice and that was good advice.

03-14-2005, 05:07 AM

good stuff

View Poll Results: shoul I stay or should I go?
have no contact and move on.....	2	50.00%
work towards our goal of being together again with the baby...	2	50.00%
Voters: 4. You may not vote on this poll

03-12-2005, 09:09 AM	#12 (permalink)
Sneer Let it drip Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 5,430	i am seriously confused by this thread. may steer clear of this. __________________ LastFM Sneer's Emporium of Sound Fright Team radio show

03-12-2005, 01:34 PM	#15 (permalink)
ArtistInTheAmbulance enchanted. Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: cornwailles, angleterre. Posts: 2,537	^Best advice we've had on here I think... __________________ shake your wings like theyre laced with sound!

03-13-2005, 02:15 AM	#17 (permalink)
ArtistInTheAmbulance enchanted. Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: cornwailles, angleterre. Posts: 2,537	I havent seen anyone on here who thinks you are bitching for no reason. Dont over-react, you asked us for advice and that was good advice. Thats all. __________________ shake your wings like theyre laced with sound!

03-12-2005, 10:04 AM	#13 (permalink)
Anarchy doll punk rock mommy Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: in my mind Posts: 660	well, thanks, I checked in and the polls are at 50/50 right now.... and Jesus! Yes I may be childish online, but never in real life, I am a mommy, that is as far as my childishness goes! and this is just a poll designed for research purposes and i will do what I feel is right, I just wanted some valid points made to give me something to consider that I might have missed.....

03-12-2005, 06:38 PM	#16 (permalink)
Anarchy doll punk rock mommy Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: in my mind Posts: 660	what would you all know about loosening up? Really? Do you all have kids and raise them properly? Do you all have exes to deal with with children that are theirs too? Do you struggle everyday with drug addiction? and still manage to stay clean? and then do your kids tell you that you are sooo much fun and that they love you,? still able to keep a relationship going? and attend the bar and punk concerts to have the time of your life all in one night?and wake up the next day and manage with all your responsibilities? K well, that is how I live.....I loosen up you say? With the REAL pressures of life, I think I do pretty well thank you.... plz don't take that outta context....am simply defending myself against all those who think I am just bitchin' for no reason.....

03-13-2005, 07:33 PM	#18 (permalink)
Anarchy doll punk rock mommy Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: in my mind Posts: 660	i didn't mean you.....I mean those people....LOL!

03-14-2005, 05:07 AM	#20 (permalink)
pastor of muppets Guest Posts: n/a	good stuff