The Confessional Thread

Originally Posted by ladyislingering

I can definitely sympathize with you there.

I'm slowly healing from wounds that have been acquired from terrible relationships, even from 5 years ago. People can really fuck you up, and they don't even care.

I have learned that what others have done to me/put me through does not define me, and though some things still burn me up a little, I'm healing. Slowly but surely, I'll be alright.

They really can, and it really is the worst when they make you believe that you were the one responsible for their bull****. I'm surprised I made it out of that relationship alive. I sometimes struggle with the idea that what I did during the relationship doesn't define me, nor does his warped ideas of who I am as a person mean anything besides the fact he projected his own insecurities onto me.

Originally Posted by ladyislingering

Just remember, everyone who has ever hurt you will die eventually. Hopefully before you, so you can laugh at them.

LOL yes, but even better he married the ratchet faced bitch he rebounded with and got ugly and gross looking. He used to be hot as ****, a better looking Cillian Murphy.

He's truly awful, I'm glad I finally deleted him off my friends list because he used to stalk my relationship status and whenever I had a break up he'd start talking to me again, but the last time I shut him down and saw him for the pathetic piece of trash he is. Still is rough to deal with, I loved him and thought we were soulmates but clearly that's bull****.