So you're just going to be a celibate friend for the rest of your life?

See post above.

Yeah man, what're you .. 17? 18? If you haven't found a mate for life by now you may as well give up.

No. I'm not saying that. I mean that's how I feel about it right now and that's why I'm not bothering. I just generalize a lot sorry.

Conan you have the gruffest most manly singing voice ever, just play one of those ****ers on your acoustic guitar and you will have her or many other girls running into your arms for hugs. I know I said that oddly and probably sounded sarcastic but Im not. If you have a talent use it, guys have been using the guitar to get laid for years. As long as that not the reason you play it, why not benefit from it! Not to mention your a nice guy from what I can tell, and the saying nice guys finish last is a load of bollocks.

:laughing:

Can't sleep when it is quiet, but I can't sleep when someone snores. I need a fan, air conditioner, music, or the tv on to fall asleep.
Shoe laces have to be the same length on each shoe.
TV volume has to go by 5's and if not it just annoys me if it is not going by 5's.

I like to examine my and the woman's genitals closely during coitus

Thanks ReZz. As soon as I learn to play a song that isn't mind numbingly depressing I think I will :D

I know I don't know your situation, but I have MUCH experience with this general situation:(. If you're sexually interested in someone, the "friend zone" is not somewhere you want to be. It's never worked out for me at least. Either tell her how you feel or put some distance between you so you can get over her. Sorry if I'm butting in.

I can't wear black anymore, I feel like its the laziest color ever.

I pick at my scabs until they turn into scars.

I chew on my cheeks. I did it so much when I was a bit younger that I screwed up the nerves. I can't really feel them anymore.

I play about 20-30 games of tetris a day.

I get pissed off at myself if I feel like I haven't done anything useful for a while so I recheck homework, write out notes over and over again, and read SAT and ACT prepbooks.

I force myself to do things I'm not interested in at all so I have to leave the house because if I don't, I'll sit around and do literally nothing for hours on end.

I try to gauge my decisions against what I assume is other people's judgement before I make them.

I bite my nails and probably always will. I think it made my hands grow less then they were supposed to, they're really small. Don't know anybody my age with creepy/tiny hands like mine.


GOD, I'M SO INTERESTING.

I do number 2,3 and 5 all the time :(
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fuck yeah.

no worries, hugging has never led to sex with me.
and i find that pretty hard to believe, you seem to be a really cool guy. girls are just blind to personality where you live i guess. :/

There's no such thing as too much Conan, is there.
I hug with a lot of my friends (female friends, that is).
Hasn't got much to do with sex indeed.
But some people think that's strange. Ah well :)

don't be sad.
compulsive self-harmers FTW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The day i hit Conan overload will be the day Hitler comes back to life and starts shooting Germans lol
I dont get why a lot of my friends think its so weird to hug people! honestly, im not like raping them or anything lol. I just really love hugs, i've even hugged a couple of hobos :D

Haha, I'm sure they loved it :).
I dunno, I must admit I think it's weird to hug a guy, especially when you know him.
It's kind of hypocrit, I know. But I can't help feeling that way.
I don't think it's weird to hug a girl or even have her laying against you while watching a movie or so, without meaning to do more.

hope they did, they probly dont get many more
its not THAT weird, some of my guy friends like it, some dont, but they all learn to live with it :)
and yeah, i feel the same with girls, even if you arent dating or anything, as long as it doesnt lead on to anything else

Nothing beats a good hug.

^i know right?!

Cuddling & Hugs over sex for me (not kidding ;)).

haha seriously? not a lotta guys i know would say that lol

That is definitely a quirk! :)

Haha, I guess.
Don't get me wrong. I love sex and a lot of it :).
But I could do without sex in a relationship, I couldn't do without being close and hugging.

lol, thanks.

*hugz*

Wish there were more guys like that around here, lol. Every guy i've gone out with is a total perv who cant go w/o sex, and yet doesnt particularly like hugs :/

Dude, I'm a dude!


I sort of have to say "look fellas, now this is how I do it" to fall in grace with the other guys now :D.

No, really. I love sex and I'm into it most of the time. But it's not important for me in a relationship. It's nice, but not important. Hugs are. And I don't mean the occasional hug. I may not demand sex, but I do demand closeness and hugs. I just need that.

Eitherway, just checking, someone pointed out you're 'like 13 or something'. How old are you?
And how old are the guys you date with? Because if you're really thirteen you're probably hanging out with the wrong kind of guys.
No guy I know in real life is a total perv. They think it's a pity when their girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with them, obviously.
But it's not like they almost force her to have sex with them...

I don't see anything wrong with hugging guys.

I don't understand your love of hugging, s_k... "Sex isn't important, but hugs are." That sounds like something I would have said when I was 13. Actually I never would have said that, I don't understand what is so great about hugging. Only time I would hug someone is upon seeing a female friend for the first time in awhile, or if one of my friends had something serious happen like a death in the family. What is this hugging craze all about? Seems like you just hug your friends for basically no reason and find it to be awesome.

^yeah, pretty much. I just love hugs, its one of my many quirks

Yeah, i am 13, and i usually go with guys around my age, no more than 2 yrs older. And most of the time it was the most important thing to them, so i'd have to leave em. BUTTTTT my current girlfriend is the best, she can be pervy at some times, but she doesnt pressure me into stuff like that. :D


yay! *Hugs back!*

Neither do I! Please hug whoever you want!
It just feels strange for me. That's my quirk probably.
It's not that I don't want any other guy to stop hugging guys :)

Sex is important. But I could go without. I couldn't go without hugs.
I know how much sex bonds and such. I used to have a lot of sex with my ex-girlfriend.
But that doesn't change the fact that I can do without sex, not without hugs.

I probably wouldn't have said that when I was thirteen :D.
How old are you anyways, mr. Filthy? :D

Allright, just to be sure, when it comes to relations and hugging, I probably mean cuddling, spooning, being close together, massaging, stroking. Not just the occasional embracing. I mean really loving and caring hugging.
Yes it's possible to do that without having sex.
And no I'm not asexual. There's no way of explaining how much I am into sex without having to go into details, but you'd probably be amazed. I love pussy as much as the next guy, probably even more.
But that doesn't mean I can't do without.

Strange guys you've had. Glad you've found a nicer one :)
I can be really pervy, but only when the girl I'm with is into pervy stuff ;).
I don't feel like trying to convince or persuade someone to do stuff with/to me.
I do take my chances though, that's something else :)

Its pretty absurd how if a man hangs out with a woman and isnt banging her he is either a pussy or gay. Its kind of like the "double standard" women always mention thrown right back at them.

I don't know. I guess I'm just in control of myself?
I can honestly say that I haven't got a female friend I would not want to have sex with.
The girls know that, they see it as a compliment, they're fine with it.
In some cases things happen once or twice. Which is nice. But apart from that I don't mind having... What's it called? Platonic relationships?

No pussy. Not gay.
Bit of a softy now and then, but that's probably a choice :)

Hugging is great and I hug my male friends all the time (female not as much for some reason) but all this talk about stroking and caressing feels weird to me since it sounds you go so far with your hugging that it's like almost sex... and not just any sex the love making emotions and stuff like that thrown in sex. You just do it without the penetration. Not judging you or anything I just wonder how it works for you since I imagine it being quite emotionally draining to be that close to your ex.

Who really thinks like that? I've always had female friends.

I often wonder how attractive girls think they look in the eyes of men. I mean some know it and obviously flaunt it, and then theres a lot that are absolutely beautiful and either dont have the confidence or are just being modest. Its so hard to tell. I have talked to some really gorgeous woman that I thought would be super full of themselves but turned out kinda shy.

Your everyday average ****head male. ESPECIALLY around my age, early to mid 20's. Obviously not all but it would seem a good portion at least act like thats the way they think to keep up appearances.

We weren't talking about exes here as far as I know? :).

I guess some guys feel the need to see girls as sex objects only?
I don't know...

Seriously? I don't really remember people being like that when I was in my early 20s.

I'm not attracted to beautiful girls who are full of themselves.
It somehow shows.
Without trying to brag, all of my female friends are beautiful to very beautiful. Some of them are really head turners. You can't go anywhere with them without guys looking at them all the ****ing time. Some of them know they are beautiful, but none of them acts that way. They don't seem to take advantage of it. Character :)


Your everyday average ****head male. ESPECIALLY around my age, early to mid 20's. [/QUOTE]
I never bother about average people anyway.
I can honestly say that none of my friends (not even the 30 year old virgin, I won't mention his name) thinks like that.

Yeah I know but you have mentioned in other threads how you hug and sleep with your ex. I was just wondering how that works out. I'm asking this since I don't even care about my ex anymore. When I look at her I don't see the girl I used to be with. I just see a stranger that I can't see myself being friends with.

Also on other topic discussed. Almost all my friends are girls now since there's only two guys on my class. I don't really think about having sex with them or anything. Does that make me gay? I don't think so but I know guys who think that girls are only for banging.