The Late Night Rambling Thread

[Dirty]

touching words boozin, sounds like a hell of man.

well, went out to the bar wednesday with a girl i met and stayed with last weekend. i feel like shes into me. im making that conclusion based on her texting me out of the blue and inviting me out wednesday and her introducing me to all of her sorority girls. sounds stupid i know, but i got the vibe she was into me. Well it was $1 drink night and lets just say i left home with $20 and came home with nothing, so a lot of drinks were downed. and somewhere in there she brought up the fact that she just broke up with her ex 2 weeks ago. theres only 2 places to drink in this town so he was at the bar too.

i couldnt care less about ex boyfriends of girls im interested in, couldnt care less about past relationships and dont ever wanna talk about them. learned these mistakes years ago. but after he came into the bar she grabbed my hand and pulled me across the bar to go outside for a cig. im glad i called her out cause i knew what was goin on, she did that cause she wanted him to see her with another guy. of course she was like no no no, thats not why but whatever. we smoked a cig and had some more drinks. of course her feelings for her ex "are totally gone." Yeah right, she must think im a moron. I've seen the ending to this movie many times. The one where we hang out for a little while until her and her ex get their shit figured out and get back together. Went back to her place expecting to at least fool around. I ended up drunkenly stealing her room mates deli ham and made us some deli ham cheese melts in her microwave oven and then i headed out. she texted me after i got outside and said "i wanted you to stay but i dont want you to think im using you."

im not taking whatever this could possibly be real serious but she is girlfriend material and i dont run into that everyday. so id like to keep getting to know her, but if shes stringing me along and using this as leverage or something for her ex, then hopefully i at least get some drunken sex out of it. or at least a blowjob

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Dirty

touching words boozin, sounds like a hell of man.

well, went out to the bar wednesday with a girl i met and stayed with last weekend. i feel like shes into me. im making that conclusion based on her texting me out of the blue and inviting me out wednesday and her introducing me to all of her sorority girls. sounds stupid i know, but i got the vibe she was into me. Well it was $1 drink night and lets just say i left home with $20 and came home with nothing, so a lot of drinks were downed. and somewhere in there she brought up the fact that she just broke up with her ex 2 weeks ago. theres only 2 places to drink in this town so he was at the bar too.

i couldnt care less about ex boyfriends of girls im interested in, couldnt care less about past relationships and dont ever wanna talk about them. learned these mistakes years ago. but after he came into the bar she grabbed my hand and pulled me across the bar to go outside for a cig. im glad i called her out cause i knew what was goin on, she did that cause she wanted him to see her with another guy. of course she was like no no no, thats not why but whatever. we smoked a cig and had some more drinks. of course her feelings for her ex "are totally gone." Yeah right, she must think im a moron. I've seen the ending to this movie many times. The one where we hang out for a little while until her and her ex get their shit figured out and get back together. Went back to her place expecting to at least fool around. I ended up drunkenly stealing her room mates deli ham and made us some deli ham cheese melts in her microwave oven and then i headed out. she texted me after i got outside and said "i wanted you to stay but i dont want you to think im using you."

im not taking whatever this could possibly be real serious but she is girlfriend material and i dont run into that everyday. so id like to keep getting to know her, but if shes stringing me along and using this as leverage or something for her ex, then hopefully i at least get some drunken sex out of it. or at least a blowjob

I would have stayed and messed around with her then left immediately after it was over. If she thinks she is going to use me she has another thing coming. I would use her to get off then leave right away and NEVER contact her again. Sure she might be girlfriend material but she needs to get her baggage in order before she moves onto someone else.

[Howard the Duck]

^^harsh, bro

[Bloozcrooz]

Originally Posted by Neapolitan

truly sorry to hear about the loss of your friend.

Thanks man

Originally Posted by Dirty

touching words boozin, sounds like a hell of man.

well, went out to the bar wednesday with a girl i met and stayed with last weekend. i feel like shes into me. im making that conclusion based on her texting me out of the blue and inviting me out wednesday and her introducing me to all of her sorority girls. sounds stupid i know, but i got the vibe she was into me. Well it was $1 drink night and lets just say i left home with $20 and came home with nothing, so a lot of drinks were downed. and somewhere in there she brought up the fact that she just broke up with her ex 2 weeks ago. theres only 2 places to drink in this town so he was at the bar too.

i couldnt care less about ex boyfriends of girls im interested in, couldnt care less about past relationships and dont ever wanna talk about them. learned these mistakes years ago. but after he came into the bar she grabbed my hand and pulled me across the bar to go outside for a cig. im glad i called her out cause i knew what was goin on, she did that cause she wanted him to see her with another guy. of course she was like no no no, thats not why but whatever. we smoked a cig and had some more drinks. of course her feelings for her ex "are totally gone." Yeah right, she must think im a moron. I've seen the ending to this movie many times. The one where we hang out for a little while until her and her ex get their shit figured out and get back together. Went back to her place expecting to at least fool around. I ended up drunkenly stealing her room mates deli ham and made us some deli ham cheese melts in her microwave oven and then i headed out. she texted me after i got outside and said "i wanted you to stay but i dont want you to think im using you."

im not taking whatever this could possibly be real serious but she is girlfriend material and i dont run into that everyday. so id like to keep getting to know her, but if shes stringing me along and using this as leverage or something for her ex, then hopefully i at least get some drunken sex out of it. or at least a blowjob

Thanks for the comment....nice story by the way.

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Il Duce

^^harsh, bro

It's the truth and I'm at the point where I'm not letting any female walk over me/use me. Been there and done that. I'm worth more than that. There is plenty of fish in the sea.

[Dirty]

its a girl i just met so its not like i have anything really invested in this. i dont mind being used if sex is included in that package, which i assume it will be soon. i woulda stayed but after the sandwich i could tell she didnt want me spending the night so thats why i bounced. definitely not trying to take on any baggage, im just gonna go with the flow n see what happens. just had to vent a slight bit cause its not cool shes recently single as that does not bode well for my chances of getting to know her better and going the non "casual sex partners" route...which now that i think about it isnt really that bad of a thing haha

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Dirty

its a girl i just met so its not like i have anything really invested in this. i dont mind being used if sex is included in that package, which i assume it will be soon. i woulda stayed but after the sandwich i could tell she didnt want me spending the night so thats why i bounced. definitely not trying to take on any baggage, im just gonna go with the flow n see what happens. just had to vent a slight bit cause its not cool shes recently single as that does not bode well for my chances of getting to know her better and going the non "casual sex partners" route...which now that i think about it isnt really that bad of a thing haha

go for it man!

She totally wants a rebound guy and you are in the position to be THAT guy. Smash it and when you are done using her for sex move on.

[Bloozcrooz]

Originally Posted by Dirty

its a girl i just met so its not like i have anything really invested in this. i dont mind being used if sex is included in that package, which i assume it will be soon. i woulda stayed but after the sandwich i could tell she didnt want me spending the night so thats why i bounced. definitely not trying to take on any baggage, im just gonna go with the flow n see what happens. just had to vent a slight bit cause its not cool shes recently single as that does not bode well for my chances of getting to know her better and going the non "casual sex partners" route...which now that i think about it isnt really that bad of a thing haha

Are you stressing over this chick already some? Im confused as to which route your wanting to go? You wanting to have a steady girl or just some casual fun or casual fun and if it turns into something serious then its cool?

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Boozinbloozin

Are you stressing over this chick already some? Im confused as to which route your wanting to go? You wanting to have a steady girl or just some casual fun or casual fun and if it turns into something serious then its cool?

he totally is, he's talking about wanting to get to know her better but on the other hand he wants to just smash. He says it's casual but on the other hand it sounds like he is developing feelings imo.

[Bloozcrooz]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

he totally is, he's talking about wanting to get to know her better but on the other hand he wants to just smash. He says it's casual but on the other hand it sounds like he is developing feelings imo.

Ahh...hate it when that happens.