For Her.

**Goofle** · 12-22-2011, 10:06 PM

Keep strong Lee. Any emotion you are feeling is entirely understandable.

I will make a donation as soon as I have money in my bank.

ribbons · 12-23-2011, 02:16 PM

My sincere condolences to you and your sons. So very sorry for your loss.

attested_psycho · 12-24-2011, 02:24 PM

I know I'm just a random n00b on this forum, but I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I can see how dedicated you are to this forum and I hope that my few words and those of others will help you.

Stay strong.

right-track · 12-24-2011, 03:29 PM

Lee, just want you to know I'm thinking of you and yours this Xmas, mate.
Bokt ta kom, pral.

Salami · 12-24-2011, 03:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jackhammer

I just need to do something that requires a little focus. All those times u imagine certain songs to get u through have really done it for me today and then some.

My kids are OK, they seem to be in a state of shock as I am but I have been strong for them but just taking a little time out ATM.

Lee, I know I'm still just a n00b here, but I'm still shocked to read this. 19 years is quite a long time, and I'm already sad to think of all the places you've been and experiences you've shared in those 19 years. I feel upset by this and I can sense the emptiness and the despair you must be in.

I do feel very sad on your behalf.

Now, I can't help by writing more, so I'll stick with just that. I'm actually quite distressed at this, since the last few pages have been so emotional. I'm so sorry.

Necromancer · 12-24-2011, 03:50 PM

This is a wonderful thread, as a reminder for the holidays hammer. Its not like we all don't already know someone like Elaine. As you stated in your reply, we should all cherish the moment.

Sorry for the loss mate.

Mojo · 12-25-2011, 04:23 AM

Wow, I'm completely bowled over having not checked in here for a few days.

I can't add anything to this thread that hasn't already been said and so I'm not even gonna try. I will certainly check back to the link you provided later and make a donation, I would be more than happy to.

My thoughts are with you and your family today Lee. It's difficult to convey sincerity in circumstances such as this, but I wish you all the best.

jackhammer · 12-25-2011, 04:18 PM

Many many thanks for all who have donated and a sincere Merry Christmas to all those who celebrate it. Thank you.

jackhammer · 12-12-2012, 08:30 PM

It is the first anniversary of my loved one's death on Saturday although the day is actually today and my youngest son was awake (it's 3 am here) and in a state.

I took my eldest son to see the Foals a couple of weeks back and they played this and he admitted to having a tear in his eye so to Elaine, Veganelica, Howard The Duck, Gavin B's recent misfortune and Jayjamjah -

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 12-12-2012, 08:51 PM

*hugs*

I can't believe it's been a year. xx

12-24-2011, 03:50 PM	#56 (permalink)
Necromancer Divination Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 2,655	This is a wonderful thread, as a reminder for the holidays hammer. Its not like we all don't already know someone like Elaine. As you stated in your reply, we should all cherish the moment. Sorry for the loss mate. Last edited by Necromancer; 12-24-2011 at 03:57 PM.

12-25-2011, 04:23 AM	#57 (permalink)
Mojo Melancholia Eternally Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: England Posts: 5,018	Wow, I'm completely bowled over having not checked in here for a few days. I can't add anything to this thread that hasn't already been said and so I'm not even gonna try. I will certainly check back to the link you provided later and make a donation, I would be more than happy to. My thoughts are with you and your family today Lee. It's difficult to convey sincerity in circumstances such as this, but I wish you all the best. __________________ Last.FM \| Echoes and Dust

12-25-2011, 04:18 PM	#58 (permalink)
jackhammer Ba and Be. Join Date: May 2007 Location: This Is England Posts: 17,331	Many many thanks for all who have donated and a sincere Merry Christmas to all those who celebrate it. Thank you. __________________ It be my music and film collection. “A cynic by experience, a romantic by inclination and now a hero by necessity.”

12-12-2012, 08:30 PM	#59 (permalink)
jackhammer Ba and Be. Join Date: May 2007 Location: This Is England Posts: 17,331	It is the first anniversary of my loved one's death on Saturday although the day is actually today and my youngest son was awake (it's 3 am here) and in a state. I took my eldest son to see the Foals a couple of weeks back and they played this and he admitted to having a tear in his eye so to Elaine, Veganelica, Howard The Duck, Gavin B's recent misfortune and Jayjamjah - __________________ It be my music and film collection. “A cynic by experience, a romantic by inclination and now a hero by necessity.” Last edited by jackhammer; 12-12-2012 at 08:36 PM.

12-12-2012, 08:51 PM	#60 (permalink)
Scarlett O'Hara Make it so Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,181	hugs I can't believe it's been a year. xx __________________ "Elph is truly an enfant terrible of the forum, bless and curse him" - Marie, Queen of Thots

12-23-2011, 02:16 PM	#52 (permalink)
ribbons Music Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1,265	My sincere condolences to you and your sons. So very sorry for your loss.

12-24-2011, 02:24 PM	#53 (permalink)
attested_psycho Groupie Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: La Belle Province Posts: 19	I know I'm just a random n00b on this forum, but I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I can see how dedicated you are to this forum and I hope that my few words and those of others will help you. Stay strong.

12-24-2011, 03:29 PM	#54 (permalink)
right-track Atchin' Akai Join Date: May 2005 Location: Unamerica Posts: 8,723	Lee, just want you to know I'm thinking of you and yours this Xmas, mate. Bokt ta kom, pral.