Odyshape

What do you guys think about the "Art of pickup" and all those advice things you see all over (especially on porn websites). When I hear a lot about all of these techniques guys use to "pick-up" girls I can't help but think that those aren't really all that effective.

Telling a guy to do a specific thing isn't really beneficial. From my knowledge and experience girls seem to just want some one who isn't afraid of their impulses (within reason) and some one who's impulses aren't totally ****ed up. (I could use some girls on this forum to vouch for that one)

So pretty much some one who is decisive, which is what really confuses me. Telling some one to do a particular thing doesn't do that. Telling them to say a certain thing or act a certain way doesn't empower their impulse in fact it makes meeting girls a big thinking game... Which I know definitely doesn't help.

What do you guys think about the supposed "Art" of pickup?