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Old 02-21-2004, 07:03 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I have met a young lady and we discussed going on a date,she has hinted strongly that we may have some sort of sexual contact,i am not sure that i am comfortable with this but i really like her and want to make it work,what should i do?
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Old 02-21-2004, 07:07 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Take it one step at a time, perhaps walk her home from church as a first date, get to know her a bit better, find out if you're really compatible by ascertaining the position of her trines and star crosses from her astrological chart. Then just give her one, for gods sake are you a man or a mouse?
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Old 02-21-2004, 07:29 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Well that would be good advice except that we belong to 2 different churches,i am C of E and she is from a strict African Muslim familly,and i am not accepted in her church.
i can assure you i am niether man or mouse,i am a TIGER!! GGGGGRRRRRR!!!!!
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Old 02-21-2004, 07:32 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Well that would be good advice except that we belong to 2 different churches,i am C of E and she is from a strict African Muslim familly,and i am not accepted in her church.
I think you're f***** then geezer. Unless you want to convert, but is it worth it just for a......f-f-friendship?
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Old 02-21-2004, 07:42 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I think you're f***** then geezer. Unless you want to convert, but is it worth it just for a......f-f-friendship?
Well Mwaebae(that's her name) has suggested that,but i dont know that i can be that dedicated to her religeon,besides i shouldn't have to.

Anyway the problem is the i am worried that sexual contact might ruin the freindship,and i dont like the pressure she is putting on me to ...put out!
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Old 02-21-2004, 08:38 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Tell her that, if she respects you, she'll respect your desicion and wait till your ready, or get tired of waiting and ditch you for another....:S

I dont expect you to take relationship advice from a 14 year old, especially this 14 year old
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Old 02-21-2004, 10:47 PM   #7 (permalink)
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i agree with elt.
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Old 02-22-2004, 12:45 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Elt is definitely right.
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Old 02-22-2004, 01:21 AM   #9 (permalink)
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ya, i've been down that road before, trust me, wait till your ready
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Old 02-22-2004, 10:53 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Oh come on, life's too short, I say - wait till you meet her ok, then decide. If you think in the flesh she's got a face like a slapped arse then your decision will be made for you, if however, she is the most gorgeous thing you ever saw then you may want to shorten your idea of what 'wait' is.

Hey, it's a good job we have an open relationship isn't it?
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