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Yeah, I was gonna post in the "Grinds my gears" thread about holding doors. It's worse with women. I swear, at least 70 percent of the women (young girls. older women, very old grandma types) for whom I've opened, held a door or let them go first fail to even acknowledge the gesture. It's no big thing to do it, but you could just as easily not do it, as many I see do. So when you're a gentleman it's nice to be thanked. Even a ****ing smile will do, but to be totally blanked, and they walk through as if it's their divine right to go ahead of you, that you should hold the door and they owe you nothing, not even thanks, in response. That pisses me off. I also do the "You're welcome", but as unlike Jack I'm a weedy glasses-wearing nerd, and a coward, I say it quietly through gritted teeth.
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Want a thank you for holding the door?
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Why is it that, when you're trying to pass someone who is walking slowly on the sidewalk, they almost always start to drift to the side that you're trying to pass them on? Is it simply that people drift from side to side as they walk so you have 50/50 chance of passing on the wrong side? Or is some weird reaction people have to other people trying to pass them?
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I hold doors for people because I was taught that it is a polite thing to do. Most of the time people do say thanks or something along those lines, but I don't expect it. They don't owe me anything. I do nice things for people because that's how I am - I don't do them to gain approval or anything of the sort. |
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It is pretty rude for people to not say thanks when someone else holds a door for them though.
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