I've been single for 10 years. Ain't had sex in maybe 4 years. I feel like a bloody monk.

Considering that you are only eight years old, it is normal for you to not to have any sex. But if you had sex four years ago, when you were four... Well... Did you sing in a catholic boy choir? Or something like that...

Something like that. ;)

How often do you couples who don't live together see each other? And how often do you have sex?

Im at a point in my life where i dont want a fully committed relationship which is strange cause ive always been a relationship kinda guy but now since i still fool around with my ex without being in a relationship with her i get the enjoy le sexy time with her without the commitment of a relationship

is it wrong im enjoying this a little too much? should i seek a real relationship?

How often? every time they see each other ;)

Well yeah that's sort of why I'm wondering because my boyfriend and I don't have that much sex tbh.

Everybody's different though. Whatever feels right.

If it is bothering you how much you don't have sex with him. You should actually bring it up and have a discussion about it with him.

well i don't mean to pry but does this have you unsatisfied? because not everybody has the same sex drive some ppl couples aren't very sexual even though they enjoy sex at times other couples have passionate sex all the time which actually brings them closer as a couple then going out on fancy dates

idk what kind of relationship you have with your BF but if this subject is on your mind maybe you 2 should talk about it maybe he is wondering the same thing as you

It's not like we never have sex, I think it's more about a lack of confidence rather than not actually wanting to have sex. The both of us are quite shy so it could be that. I often don't initiate sex because I basically worry that he doesn't want to have sex and will therefore tell me to stop. I have major insecurities about myself so I think it's more of a problem with me than anything else.

Another problem is that I literally have no idea how he feels about me which could contribute to why I hardly initiate sex, in the whole time we have been going out he has never told me that I'm 'dressed nice' 'look good' etc etc, I'm not looking to be told I'm a ****ing princess and gods gift to men, I just want to know he actually likes me.



I also have no idea how I would bring these subjects up. I feel like a lost cause.