I worked at a summer camp where the counsellors had to make up a nickname that the girls would call you by (it's an all girls camp). So instead of calling you your first name or Miss/Mrs. ________, they'd use the nick.

One of my coworkers had the name Babycakes, so your post reminded of that. She said it's a name that her fiance gave her and so she just used it, lol.

lol

:rofl: I hate that term as well! I just go with the appropriate BF/GF, husband/wife, fiance... or just simply DATE if it's on an invite or something (like "You can bring a date to this party!")

Fred, you can call me whatever you like man :cool:

Are there any habits that the other person has that bother you? Or habits that your ex had, etc.

You got it Delicious. :wave:

mmmmm... *thinking*

well there is one thing that bothers me, i hate when all she wants to talk about is herself

sometimes her stories are just irrelevant, like she will tell me what she ate during the day and everything she went through
and im just there silently nodding to everything and what is f*cked up is that SHE KNOWS im not that interested and instead of changing the subject to something interesting she just keeps rambling on..

And god forbid i ignore her cause then
"I don't care about her" *Cue the fake tears*

it's not that it bothers me THAT much, some days im genuinely interested

but i wish we would talk more often about serious things.. or at least things we both enjoy talking about

Yeah, complimenting other men in front of me. I didn't like it, normally it wouldn't bother me but she was relentless about it and something about it didn't sit right with me. Just made me feel dead awkward.

Needless to say it didn't end well (she cheated :rolleyes:), would not date a girl like that ever again.

lol

My ex did this all the time. Not a single fuck was ever given.

LOL!

but at least we care enough fake interest right? (or is that just me?)

Cause i don't wanna be rude or anything but like, if i talk to my girl about an anime or videogame she would just roll her eyes at me and continue her story :rolleyes: